#steps to change

[redinkquill]

I wish for change

How do I achieve this?

Set a goal

Break it into little steps

Achieve a bit of it every day

Ask for help

Like you would use a tool for job

Use the help of others

No person should be alone in their efforts

[findfreebeyourself]

I'm such a list person, so on this journey I've decided to compile of things that should occur on this journey to finding myself and ultimately HAPPINESS (wooooo) 1. Travel ALONE I need to do it, I need to be away, and by myself. I need to learn how to deal with myself and be more self reliant, I think that this will help me, deal with me :) 2. Get back into shape As superficial as this sounds a lot of my unhappiness and feeling of discontent comes with realising how I had let myself go over the years. It was a shock to realise how much I'd changed mentally AND physically. I want to go back to what I was and be happy with my body and my mind. 3. Know what I stand for and what my morals are. Later on in the week I'm going to Compile a list of things (such a list person) that I stand for and my morals, and not be a fucking flip flopper. I need to not let other influence my thoughts and stand up for myself and MY morals. 4. Be happy with where I'm going in life and focus on something. I can't spend my life sleeping all day and missing uni constantly. I need to figure out where I want to be 10 years from now and how I'm going to get there, or if I want to be the type of person that needs to know what I'm doing or if I just want to go with the flow and be happy where ever I end up. :) 5. Stop letting him get in the way. He is my internal cock block, I can't move on until I move on from him and realise he's gone. There's probably more to add to the list but I'm so tired :p