#rp community

[candyheartedchy]

Check for any updates❗️

Due to the constant harassment and being stalked by the chadsupporters guy, I will update this post whenever there’s a username change or new account of his is revealed. If needing any information about this user, just type in any of these usernames below in the search bar on tumblr.

His past accounts and usernames before getting banned: chadsupporters | lucariolikeskitbodega | dbzdaikobattle | momoscarada | kitbodega4smash | smashoverse | bodegaballzmalicesrevenge | lugetavecario | daikonbattle | gameoverseenjoyer | kitandkaboodlepartnersincrime | kit4smashbros | kitbodegafanboy

❗️NEW ACCOUNT: kitbodegablack

Examples of his harassments!

Threats!

What started it all!

Remember to keep an eye out, block, report and don’t engage with him!!!

[new-server-roleplay]

Multi-Roleplay

✨Multi-Fandom + OC-Friendly

💥Canon characters AND original characters are welcome!

🎭No set lore—create your own stories, your way.

📜Paragraph/lit-style RP only—no one-liners allowed!

🧡Chill, respectful community & active mods.

Join us Join us Join us

Do you support DM-style roleplays?

This is a server-based roleplay community. We no longer support DM-style roleplays, as our goal is to foster an engaging and interactive environment where members can connect with one another. For this reason, we do not allow lurking, nor do we encourage advertisements for private roleplays. We ask that all members remain active and participate within the community. If you are not seeking this type of experience, this server may not be the right fit for you.

Join the Multi-Roleplay Discord Server!

✨ Multi-Fandom + OC-Friendly💥 Canon characters AND original characters welcome!🎭 No set lore — create your own stories, your way.📜 Paragraph

[leneemusing]

alternative tumblr platform for rp in the event of a shut down

wafrn is a tumblr adjacent blogging platform operated on something called 'fediverse.' now for the ins and outs of what that is i really suggest letting someone more tech savvy explain. the short of it is that it's a network of servers independent of big corporations. wafrn is fairly similar to tumblr in terms of user interface.

this is how it looks

the content itself is a little empty right now. the tag search works just fine, i think there's just not a lot of users creating anything to put in them because we're all over here. if there ever was a mass migration i could see plenty of art, poetry and gifs being uploaded. i don't think gifsets would be the same as they are here but we could adapt. it would be a simple matter.

you can send and reply to asks just as normally. all the functions are pretty much identical to tumblr it's just a slightly different UI.

now the part everyone actually cares about. does this place work for rp? i'm gonna say...maybee?

the biggest issue would be there not being any ability to cut posts right now. it's possible that if we did all have to move the same angels who gifted us xkit might help us here, or the creators of wfrn would be willing to add it into the coding as its a small community right now. it's not the same as trying to fight with a big corp that forces staff to do their bidding. with that in mind i'm kinda cautiously optimistic a case could be made to the engineers to add new functions for new communities.

now similar to twitter, you can quote posts which if all else fails would be a somewhat functional way to do threads.

that's all i've got for now. i don't know what will happen to this app, no on really does right now and we've survived so many potential shut downs so who knows! but i think this is a comforting alternative to have in the back of our minds. everyone would just have to be willing to adapt and communicate with each other to make a move happen if that day comes. <3

[mochacappuccino]

i love female characters. i will always love them — fiercely, unapologetically, without condition.

i don’t just enjoy writing with them. i prioritize them. because the reality is that femme - presenting characters are consistently treated as disposable in this space — flattened into tropes, sidelined to make room for louder men, or picked apart under the microscope for flaws that male characters are praised for. i’ve seen female characters erased from their own stories. i’ve watched them be written out of relevance, or worse, rewritten into something unrecognizable just to serve someone else's narrative.

because i know how rotted this space can be toward femme - presenting characters. i’ve seen it. we all have. it’s disheartening. & exhausting.

there is something deeply broken in the way writing spaces, especially fandom spaces, treat women. it’s in the way complexity is punished. softness is mocked. rage is vilified. it’s in how quickly they’re labeled annoying or unlikeable or irredeemable for displaying the same traits that make male characters beloved & " complicated. " it’s in the way their pain is overlooked, their power undermined, their agency stolen.

that is why i choose them. that is why i will always choose them. because they deserve more than the scraps. they deserve stories that are just as rich, as nuanced, as devastating & magical & alive as any others. they deserve love that isn’t conditional. they deserve to be messy, brilliant, selfish, selfless, heroic, cruel, tender, & everything in between — without needing to earn the right to be remembered.

so yes, i will always cater towards my girls. i will always write with them with depth & care. i will defend them. if that ever makes you uncomfortable, if that ever makes you scroll past — then this simply isn’t the space for you. this corner of the internet is for girls with blood on their hands & stars in their eyes. for women who cry & scream & survive. for femmes who were written off & still found a way to matter.

i love them. i always will.

[julianrps]

*:･ﾟ✧🏳️‍⚧️ COMBATTING TRANSPHOBIA IN THE RPC IN 2025 because these are some icky vibes

HEY FOLKS , WE NEED TO TALK! get comfy because this is a long post with important stuff in it , that will briefly discuss examples of transphobia we've spotted in the rpc. just a heads up that this includes some quotes of transphobic things that have been said. as a trans person who is also friends with a lot of other trans people in the rpc , we've been seeing quite the uptick of incidents of transphobia in the community for a few months now. a lot of it has been going on in fantasy fandoms , but it's probably because we're in those most that we see it the most and this isn't isolated to just those. it's an issue that's more prevalent recently , and it's something that we think needs to be pointed out and most importantly actually tell you our suggestions for what you can do to help make and keep the rpc safe for trans people. our rights are being attacked tenfold right now and finding safe places in real life and online is getting harder and harder. please don't contribute to that and try to help us in making it better. i won't be calling anyone out on this post , going into specifics , mud-slinging or name calling. that won't solve any problems or let anyone move forward. the key to being better is giving people room to learn from their accidents , screw ups and mistakes , and reflect on how they can better that behaviour for the whole community to benefit. i won't be taking questions or responding to messages unless it's to chat about moving forward with these intentions.

*:･ﾟ✧ WHAT'S BEEN GOING ON? i'll tell ya!

roleplayers have been fetishising other people's trans characters like they're sexual oddities and not people. focus on a character's genitals , asking if a character's genitals are ' normal ' or not ( heads up , trans people's are as normal as everyone else's ) , treating trans people and muses as if their gender is ' fake ' , or pushing fetishes related to topics like pregnancy or periods on them without their consent. conversely , writing nsfw rp involving trans characters is not always inherently fetishistic ---- some roleplayers have been telling them it is. trans people can be sexy , have sex and enjoy sex , and they should be able to write and discuss this material as openly as everyone else does. implying that trans people just having sex lives is fetishistic and shouldn't be allowed can contribute to the shame that some of us feel about our bodies and us having healthy , normal desires that a lot of people have. roleplayers have been equating gender to genitals in and out of character. not everyone of the same gender has the same genitals , and not everyone with the same genitals has the same gender. neither invalidate the other and phrases like ' she has what every women has ' or ' he's just like all men ' when talking about muses that are cis or trans aren't helpful and can make us feel dysphoric. roleplayers have been openly mocking trans people who have said they don't want to be approached by people who write harry potter content. it's mean-spirited , implies our feelings and boundaries are an over reaction , and doesn't extend any empathy. it ignores the point we're making that we're just asking to not have to interact with material written by an active oppressor of our rights. trans roleplayers have been including rhetoric in their roleplay that reflects transmedicalist beliefs , that trans people should adhere to strict gender roles , and stereotypes that people are trans because they're groomed to be. these are stereotypes that people use to attack us , discredit us , and police our gender expression. our own community isn't perfect and we need to challenge and talk about internalised transphobia as much as external.

*:･ﾟ✧ BUT WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT IT? i'll tell ya that too!

nsfw writing with trans muns & muses. if you aren't sure it's probably best to ask the other mun how their character refers to their genitals and other parts of their body , and what words the mun would like you to use in your prose as well. it may be helpful to ask what the character's body is like and how sex works for them , and some muns appreciate if it's discussed a neutral , informational way. make sure to discuss any kink topics that are to be avoided before talking about them in depth or suggesting scenarios , especially ones that may be linked to gender presentation and reproductive processes. all these things go a long way in keeping your rp partnership comfortable , learning about differing experiences , and avoiding dysphoria for trans muns. harry potter in the rpc. if you write harry potter content the best thing you can do right now is adhere to others rules and give them the space they ask for. with the hbo show being made we see hp content all the time and it can be a reminder that mainstream media do not care about us as people , as well as millions of people spending their money that jk rowling feeds directly into backing anti-trans groups because nostalgia is more important to them than our lives and rights. that's a lot to deal with all the time , of course we're tired and upset. you may want to think about why it is you still write harry potter and if you're really able to separate art from artist. jk rowling's bigotry is baked into the series on many fronts and these videos are worth a watch to know more about it ; one two three. i'm aware that if someone is really determined to write it they will , though those who rush to justify it by saying they're ' reclaiming ' the story doesn't really mean much if you're using the same bigoted material. unless you're writing stories that challenge and dismantle these tropes , are you really reclaiming it? maybe that's something to think about. working on our internalised transphobia. this is something that can be really difficult to deal with when it comes from within our own community and even ourselves. in the times we live in a lot of trans people may have engaged in either passive or active internalised transphobia toward themselves or others , and being on either side of the equation can lead to distress , shame and isolation from support systems. while it probably feels overwhelming when we're working on so many things to keep our lives stable and safe , everyone deserves the opportunity and space to be able to work on it , not just for those around them but for a better relationship with themselves. it can be really complex and unique to every person's situation , and so here's some articles from the counselling directory and the trevor project ( focusing on homophobia from a trans perspective ) to start off. and , lastly ---- if you're feeling defensive because people said they don't want to engage in your content or fandoms because it makes them uncomfortable , maybe you should think about why you feel that way. if you're asking for people to be understanding of your blog content but are then mocking and belittling them with your friends , they're going to be unlikely to take any implied stance you may have on their right to live in peace in good faith. trans people are actively having their rights and dignity stripped away by governments every single day at an alarming pace. soon it might be illegal for me to use basic services like toilets. i've narrowly escaped threats of violence in public twice in the last three months and it will probably happen again. taking the time to mock us online for having boundaries against one of the people that is causing this isn't clever or funny. and if you don't stop even after we tell you it hurts us , then to quote a well known saying , that's some heinous loser behaviour. just be better. i know you can.

[glowfangarts]

Dr. Howard has some style, wouldn't you agree?

Finally I have a proper front-view ref of this guy for the ask blog @ask-animalia

[musesforthedamned]

I was honestly going to take the easy route.

I was going to let this person win. I was going to step back, let them make me feel unwelcome in a space I built for myself, and pretend it was easier to walk away than keep dealing with the harassment.

But over the past twenty-four hours, after everything that has happened, I have had to sit with something important: I have put far too much work, love, time, and energy into these blogs, into my muses, into my graphics, into my themes, and into the whole ForTheDamned branding I created to let one person take that from me.

I built this.

I was the one who spent hours endlessly customizing themes. I was the one making graphics, building layouts, shaping aesthetics, cultivating muses, organizing spaces, and turning these blogs into something that felt like mine. I put creativity, effort, care, and a ridiculous amount of stubborn little gremlin energy into being here.

So no. I am not letting someone who has been harassing me chase me out of something I created.

And especially not now that I know who it is.

I know who it is because they told on themselves. This happened overnight, when I could not sleep, through Skype. There was an event where I personally and physically met up with this person. We went to the movies, and something happened that only the two of us would know about. No one else would have had that information.

During the harassment, while trying to demean me and while using racial slurs, they made the mistake of letting that detail slip.

That is not a guess. That is not confusion. That is confirmation.

The moment I called them out on it, everything I knew to be connected to them started disappearing: their personal blog, their RP blog, and the other blogs tied to them. Their Discord has also been deactivated, and their phone number has been reported and blocked.

I am sincerely sorry for the confusion that has happened within the past twenty-four hours. I know this has been stressful, messy, and upsetting for people who had no part in it, and I never wanted that. I especially want to apologize to those of you I contacted while I was trying to figure out what was happening. I know that likely caused worry and confusion, and I am truly sorry for that.

But I will not apologize for protecting myself.

To those of you who supported me, checked on me, believed me, or simply showed kindness while this was happening: I am never going to forget it. Truly. When everything felt overwhelming and ugly, that support meant more than I can properly put into words.

And despite what I said earlier, despite what I thought I was going to do, I will not be moving blogs.

I let this person win once.

It is not happening again.

I am stronger than the hate being sent my way. I am stronger than the harassment. I am stronger than someone trying to use cruelty, intimidation, and slurs to make me feel small.

This person has already been reported. Everything else connected to them has been blocked. Because this has become a matter of personal harassment, I will also be taking the appropriate legal steps, including filing for a restraining order and reporting the harassment to the police.

I have worked too hard to let one person’s behavior decide what I get to keep. These blogs are mine. This space is mine. The branding, the muses, the writing, the work, all of it is mine.

And I am not handing it over just because someone thought they could wear me down.

ForTheDamned stays. I stay.

And I am done letting someone else’s cruelty decide where I belong.