#stop assuming

[darthogilvielover]

For godsakes guys… stop assuming people’s sexuality.. remember when people thought Terran was gay???? He has a gf!! Lucas has no known partners, so we can’t assume anything. Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

[mindinthevoid]

[nonefrancesca]

There’s something fascinating about how some people confuse past availability with permanent access.

A few conversations, some shared laughs, maybe a time when I wasn’t taken — and suddenly they think the door never closed.

Like time froze. Like context doesn’t exist.

Dropping explicit messages into a chat and calling it “bold” doesn’t make it charming.

It makes it lazy.

And a little embarrassing.

Here’s the reality check:

I choose when I engage.

I choose what I tolerate.

And I definitely choose who gets that kind of space.

This isn’t mixed signals.

It’s clear boundaries being ignored.

And no — you don’t get to pretend you didn’t notice.

[sydcarmyfan]

Carmy, that’s not what Sydney wants

Sydney doesn’t want to run the brigade by herself, she wants to do it with you. Sydney doesn’t want you to work on your thoughtful chaos menu with someone else, she wants to work on it with you. Dude, she wants to do The Thing with YOU. Sydney just want you to be there. In the words of Richie, listen better. The End!

[hikoifish]

I shouldn’t assume if I’m good enough for someone else. That is their choice and opinion if I’m good enough for them.

[learnyourselfsblog]

“I resented critics who reviewed my work as Chinese literature when I felt I was writing American stories about America. I had the sense of small minds in China and America defending their smaller reality.

[limetarte]

Amatonormativity and genderism are so present and commonized that when I say “he” while not using he/him pronouns [..]self, some people assume “he” means “my boyfriend”.

Just wanna ignore those comments, but at the same time wouldn’t it be best to call them out? /genq

[sidedesnaa]

me when people still use he/him pronouns for valdemar even though they should know better by now