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Can’t Stop Fake Friends V1#4

I’m tired of people fake pretending, fake caring,and fake trying to help. I respect selfish honesty much more than your need to feel like you’re a good person. I’m a generally private person and even my best of friends tend not to know all of what’s really going on in my life. I’ve tried to be more open this year and let people know I’m not okay. However, sometimes I wish I didn’t because I don’t want to think these people I call my friends could turn out to be not so great friends. I have had friends recently offer support in one way or another, but when I come to collect they flake out. My biggest problem is don’t offer if you have no intention to follow-through. I understand you may want to feel like you’re helping or feel like you are being a good friend by offering these things. However, when you dangle something in front of my face and take it away, it only hurts my feelings more than if you never mentioned anything in the first place. If I know my friend is having a hard time and I promised to do something with them, there isn’t much that would keep me from following-through. Even if I didn’t feel the best that day, it’s not about me. Besides, people going through tough times are pretty good in the disappointment department. If I knew I wasn’t feeling great I wouldn’t offer, in the first place. The worst is when you try to manipulate me into believing that something else is going on, when the fact is you just don’t want to follow-through or you didn’t think I would accept your offer in the first place. I don’t call people out all the time but that doesn’t make me stupid. In fact, it just makes me angry that you think you can take advantage of our friendship.

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