#stressful things

[cotccotc]

ahhhhhhhhhHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[dasha-nova]

– inside no. 9, 04x03

[carcarrot]

i will get to my asks momentarily hhhh

[betterthanschindlers]

Things That Are Stressful:

-The whole world

-medicaid renewal

-the dentist appointment i have today at 11:30/mouths in general

-time

-library fines under 30$ so you can still check out things, but they're still there, just weighing you down

-relying on another human being for emotional safety

-being reminded via others' facebook posts that my insecurities have sabotaged me from fulfilling many of my goals

-having two avocados ripening at the exact same time

-cats

-dirt that gets in your bed

-the heater that keeps my bed from sitting against the wall creates a space just big enough for pillows to fall down behind the bed

-getting food stuck in a new place in your teeth that didn't used to exist because you haven't been wearing your retainer enough

-having jobs

-knowing you have to find something to wear to a wedding with people you haven't seen in a long time and knowing that black clothes + men's boots are frowned upon in formal settings

-not having a good hair day for a year

-not being able to finish Witches of Eastwick because suddenly an obtuse man coming in and interrupting the lives of three beautiful strong women isn't casual and whimsical anymore

-people telling you that the small things you have been feeling proactive enough to do (call senators, write emails) are actually wrong and you SHOULDN'T do those things because they know more than you!!!!

-realizing how many people actually do stand up and how pointless their pursuits and yours are

-New York

-how when i'm at work all i want to do is have an evening at home with nothing to do so i can watch movies, but when i get there that expanse of time is overwhelming and makes me feel trapped

-when women my age talk about how they can reduce "smile lines"

-the language people use to write contracts

-having hummus and no bread or chips or carrots

-when verified people with a lot of twitter followers follow me then i have to decide if i follow them back even though they're not funny or risk them unfollowing me and losing whatever fake clout they could have brought me in RTs or WHATEVER (i see typing this one out that it's stupid but i love twitter and care about it a ridiculous amount)

-remembering to bring everything you need when you leave the house in the morning

-everything else

[marauders4evr]

Does anyone else just

Some copy-pasted tumblr post that means well: Hey, don't worry about that stressful thing---

Me: Stressful thing?

Me: What stressful thing?

Me: Oh no.

Me: Thanks to this post, I have remembered 19 stressful things.

Me: I shall worry about them all.

[tpkatastrophy]

So my mom’s been in the hospital.  For pneumonia, I’d assumed.  I was correct, but my parents neglected to tell me another reason why they rushed her to the hospital.  

My mom might need heart surgery.  They’re going to try a catheter first before jumping into anything invasive, but it’s likely we’ll be spending thanksgiving in the hospital.  Dad and me have plans for dinner we’re both fine with, but I know mom’s going to stress herself over not being able to cook it herself.  

Also, since I’m not allowed to have my phone in work, I’m kind of in a deadzone if they need to reach me.  I’ll have to jump through some hoops to get approval for my tolphone, but then again I have a smart watch that I don’t really use I could get approved instead.  All it needs is a SIM and I can use that.  

So even though things are looking kind of stressful, I’m hoping that this’ll help my mom feel a lot better.  She really shouldn’t wait on this kind of stuff.

[daedalusconsulting]

12 Stressful Things You Need to Stop Tolerating Right Now

12 Stressful Things You Need to Stop Tolerating Right Now

BY LOLLY DASKAL President and CEO, Lead From Within @LollyDaskal

    Here’s a list of a dozen of the worst sources of bad stress. Shut them out of your life starting today, and you’ll find that you’re more productive, calmer, and happier.

Procrastination. There’s nothing more stressful than having something weigh on you until the very last minute, followed by the panic of not being certain…

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