stop giving your power away tutorial + (success story)⋆.ೃ࿔*:･💎💕
im writing this loa post as just some gentle reminders for all my LOA girlies, especially if you've been over consuming content or just simply not applying.. or if u just wanna hear a success story and how i applied the law...💬🎀
YOU GIVE EVERYTHING MEANING ;
everything external of you (aka the 3D) is neutral. there is no "good" and there is no "bad" you give everything meaning. but we already know this, we already know that you hold all the power and that you're in total control. but how do we GIVE things meaning, even when something unfavorable happens? i have an example for you.
REAL LIFE EXAMPLE ;
when i decided that my parents are worth millions and we're extremely rich, i had circumstances that were telling me otherwise. in fact, after saturating for about 1-2 days my mom literally lost her job. and while i was scared and while i did cry, none of that mattered because GUESS WHAT, it doesn’t matter what you do, only matters what you know is true internally because reality reflects IDENTITY.
all i did was give it positive meaning, when something i didn't like happened i'd just be like "no it's actually this way" and go about my day OR i'd just be like "everything is unfolding to what i decided to be true, this is just the unfolding im getting everything i want". and sure enough, our investments TRIPLED and now we own 3 businesses, and working on buying the next few ones.
everytime i heard my parents talking about money i'd immediately assume that they were talking about it in a positive manner and discussing which property they were going to buy, or whatever rich people talk about lol. even if that wasn't the case at all i only entertained what i wanted to be true. and now here i am living what i said would be true just like i knew it would.
MORE THINGS I DID ;
i love to affirm and rant. whether thats in my notes app or just in my head. thats just how i do it best. i also LOVE subliminals. so i'd mindlessly affirm every now and then, have little rant sessions, listen to the "rich family" subliminal from "i want it i got it" on youtube. i even went so far as to do some revision. while affirming instead of just saying "my parents are rich" i'd say "we've always been rich". im also SUPER exaggerative and ofc giving positive meaning to everything.
WHATS THE POINT? ;
don't give your power away no matter what! even if the external is all up in ur face and showing you "negative" things, just assume it's positive. and if u can't do that in the moment just immediately describe it like you want it to be. think of it like the 3D is trying to ragebait you and if you maintain composure you get what you want.
honey's refinement challenge, for all the dolls who wanna improve and refine themselves⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁💕
one of my favorite things to do when a new month starts is start a CHALLENGE. im the kind of person who loves to prove things to myself and push myself toward a goal, so if you haven't really had any goals for this upcoming month i recommend u start this challenge i made…💬🎀
WHAT IS THE OBJECTIVE OF THIS CHALLENGE ;
the objective of this challenge is to take ourselves and not necessarily like CHANGE ourselves drastically. thats not what this challenge is meant for. this challenge is meant to refine us in multiple aspects of life that'll end in us feeling more whole.
its basically just taking a whole month to work on yourself. like any other challenge except im putting my own little twist onto it. the main objective of this challenge is to elevate our everyday routines by implementing new things and being more INTENTIONAL. to nourish not only our bodies but our minds.
HOW TO DO IT ;
❤︎ refine our attention spans - two hours of screen time daily (three hours on weekends) this dopamine detox will be so good for you. your attention span will improve, you'll start to have a lot more original ideas and you're basically un-rotting ur brain. if this is too drastic you can either...
not allowed to watch videos on youtube/tiktok in 2x speed
or put a limit on ur phone from x time to x time and stick to it
❤︎ lymphatic sculpting for your face every morning - this will help depuff your face and leave you looking snatched. find a youtube tutorial and follow it every morning with a hydrating serum. also u don't need to buy a gua sha or anything if u don't want to bcuz ur fingers will work just fine.
❤︎ incorporate more potassium and hydration into ur diet - i hadn't been drinking enough water recently and i can LITERALLY feel it in my skin and in my mood. drink more water, eat leafy greens and fish and snack on bananas. these foods are very good for you...
this is not to RESTRICT u from eating anything, by all means eat whatever you want
if anything this is asking you to expand what u usually eat and add a side of spinach to your dinner, or instead of snacking on pocky sticks have some banana and chocolate
❤︎ cold and heat therapy - basically just switching between cold and hot temperatures. start with warm to open up those pores all over your body. in more practical terms you can start your day with a warm compress on your face and then dip your face in a bowl of ice water/ice your face. or in the shower one minute each in the morning hot and cold.
❤︎ building skills that'll improve ur social and professional life - now that ur screen time is drastically reduced you'll have SO much time on ur hands. this is the perfect time to hone ur skills and work on ur craft.
this post includes all the "basics" that aren't ACTUALLY basic at all. they're little rituals and mindset shifts that keep u bougie, glamorous and FOREVER unbothered. and ofc living with fabulosity and intention…💬🎀
MAKEUP FEMINIZATION TIPS = THE KEY TO UNLOCKING UR FACE CARD ;
❤︎ contour : we wanna round out the forehead as much as possible so application around the temples, near ur brows and upward is ideal. we don’t wanna be applying contour to our hairline area bcuz that squares the face.
focus on rounding out the corners. now for cheek contour go downwards towards ur chin. so like slightly (and i mean slightly) under cheekbone and down to ur chin. and ofc for nose button nose contour we already know how to do this.
TIP : don’t scrape ur makeup, tap it in. first with a brush, the second time with a beauty blender…💬🎀
❤︎ blush : don’t overdo it with the blush, a little goes a long way.
❤︎ concealer : a lighter color than your actual skin tone shade please. a little triangle under ur eye and a bit on ur eyelid as well, and a small bit at the edges of ur nose like beside ur nostrils. and ofc we set it.
❤︎ bronzer : with bronzer we RE-powder the contour. and u can also use the bronzer as ur eye shadow as well for a super simple look. for ur eyes don’t be putting it in the inner corner of ur lid, stick to the outer and then blend it outwards.
❤︎ highlight : the tip of ur nose and the top bridge of ur nose kinda between ur eyes.
STAY MOISTURIZED AND UNBOTHERED ;
hydration is an absolute non-negotiable for ur health and ur beauty. do u want plump beautiful hydrated skin? yeah i thought so, go drink some water girl. find some good body oils, thick body balms and glowy lotions to use in ur daily beauty rituals.
bcuz the KEY to soft supple skin is staying moisturized and exfoliated. so invest in both of those things. even the ACT of moisturizing has become so glamorous to me cuz i've associated self touch with self love. feeling confident and beautiful in the skin ur in starts with taking care of it.
GIVE YOURSELF YOUR FLOWERS, BOTH LITERALLY AND FIGURATIVELY ;
are u complimenting urself enough? giving urself ur flowers? GIVE URSELF UR FLOWERS. u dont need a reason to praise ur self, to speak love and life over urself. tell urself ur beautiful, tell urself ur the best to ever do it, tell urself ur successful, tell urself ur a fucking DOLL because u are.
affirm yourself always and cut negative self talk. thats the most FAUX fabulous shit ever. carve out some time everyday to create moments that feel like an "i love you" to yourself. i love the saying treat yourself like ur own lover and give YOURSELF love.
UPGRADE UR DAILY ROUTINE AND MAKE IT LUXURIOUS ;
being glamorous and luxurious isn't waiting for special occasions to do things and being glam. glam is a daily thing. start being more intentional with ur glamour. a pretty pink mug to drink ur morning tea in. spending ur pretty doll dollars on quality skincare so ur skin can GLEAM with intention.
buying a cute silk robe to wear when ur at home... GLAMOUR IS IN THE LITTLE THINGS. elevate how u do the everyday things and feeling and being glamorous is just inevitable. matching pajama sets to bed, good quality parfums and fragrances, shimmery pink gloss etc. treat small tasks like rituals by SLOWING down and being more present.
