#self concept work

[honeytonedhottie]

stop giving your power away tutorial + (success story)⋆.ೃ࿔*:･💎💕

im writing this loa post as just some gentle reminders for all my LOA girlies, especially if you've been over consuming content or just simply not applying.. or if u just wanna hear a success story and how i applied the law...💬🎀

YOU GIVE EVERYTHING MEANING ;

everything external of you (aka the 3D) is neutral. there is no "good" and there is no "bad" you give everything meaning. but we already know this, we already know that you hold all the power and that you're in total control. but how do we GIVE things meaning, even when something unfavorable happens? i have an example for you.

REAL LIFE EXAMPLE ;

when i decided that my parents are worth millions and we're extremely rich, i had circumstances that were telling me otherwise. in fact, after saturating for about 1-2 days my mom literally lost her job. and while i was scared and while i did cry, none of that mattered because GUESS WHAT, it doesn’t matter what you do, only matters what you know is true internally because reality reflects IDENTITY.

all i did was give it positive meaning, when something i didn't like happened i'd just be like "no it's actually this way" and go about my day OR i'd just be like "everything is unfolding to what i decided to be true, this is just the unfolding im getting everything i want". and sure enough, our investments TRIPLED and now we own 3 businesses, and working on buying the next few ones.

everytime i heard my parents talking about money i'd immediately assume that they were talking about it in a positive manner and discussing which property they were going to buy, or whatever rich people talk about lol. even if that wasn't the case at all i only entertained what i wanted to be true. and now here i am living what i said would be true just like i knew it would.

MORE THINGS I DID ;

i love to affirm and rant. whether thats in my notes app or just in my head. thats just how i do it best. i also LOVE subliminals. so i'd mindlessly affirm every now and then, have little rant sessions, listen to the "rich family" subliminal from "i want it i got it" on youtube. i even went so far as to do some revision. while affirming instead of just saying "my parents are rich" i'd say "we've always been rich". im also SUPER exaggerative and ofc giving positive meaning to everything.

WHATS THE POINT? ;

don't give your power away no matter what! even if the external is all up in ur face and showing you "negative" things, just assume it's positive. and if u can't do that in the moment just immediately describe it like you want it to be. think of it like the 3D is trying to ragebait you and if you maintain composure you get what you want.

[glowettee]

✧・゜: how i'm using this season to shed old identities that no longer serve me :・゜✧:・゜✧

hey lovelies! ✨mindy here!

i've been sitting on my little balcony this morning, watching the sunrise with my iced matcha, thinking about how summer always feels like nature's permission slip to reinvent ourselves. there's something about the longer days and warmer air that makes everything feel possible, you know? like we can finally shed the heavy coats of who we've been pretending to be.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ realizing i've been wearing masks ･:࿔ೃ.⋆

honestly? i had this moment last week where i was getting ready for a friend's party and literally tried on seven different outfits, not because they didn't fit but because i kept thinking "does this look like me?" and then i had this weird breakdown moment where i was like… wait, who even is "me" anymore?

i realized i've been cycling through different versions of myself for different people - the perpetually positive girl, the aesthetic overachiever, the one who never needs help, the girl who has it all figured out. it's exhausting trying to maintain all these identities when deep down i just want to exist without the pressure of being consistent with who i was yesterday.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ summer as a season of shedding ･:࿔ೃ.⋆

i've been thinking about snakes a lot lately (stay with me lol). they shed their entire skin when they outgrow it, and there's something so beautiful about that natural process of release. summer feels like the perfect time for us to do the same.

i started making a list of identities i've outgrown but have been clinging to:

the girl who says yes to everything because she's afraid of disappointing people

the perpetual optimizer who can't enjoy anything without trying to improve it

the one who needs everyone to like her (this one's been the hardest to let go of tbh)

the person who derives all her worth from productivity and achievement

these old skins have been suffocating me, and i didn't even realize how much until i started consciously peeling them away.

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ my gentle shedding rituals ･:࿔ೃ.⋆

i've been creating little rituals to help me release these old identities, and it's been kind of magical? here's what's been working for me:

morning journaling where i write from the perspective of my authentic self rather than who i think i should be (sometimes i literally don't know what to write and that's telling)

a social media cleanse where i unfollowed accounts that make me feel like i need to perform a certain version of myself (cut my following list in half and my anxiety improved immediately)

practicing saying things like "i don't know" and "i changed my mind" without offering explanations or apologies (terrifying at first but gets easier)

creating a "permission slip box" where i write down things i'm allowing myself to be/do/feel that the old me would have rejected (currently on my nightstand and it's getting fuller every day)

asking myself "whose voice is this?" whenever i hear that critical inner monologue (turns out most of my inner critic speaks in borrowed voices)

⋆.ೃ࿔:･ growing pains & gentle reminders ･:࿔ೃ.⋆

can i be honest? this shedding process isn't always pretty. there have been days where i've slipped back into people-pleasing or perfectionism because those old identities feel safe. there have been moments where i've felt completely lost without my usual masks to hide behind.

but i'm learning that this discomfort is part of the process. that weird in-between stage where you've outgrown who you were but haven't fully become who you're meant to be? that's where the magic happens. that's where we get to play and experiment and figure out what actually feels true.

i keep reminding myself that authenticity isn't a destination, it's a practice. and summer, with its forgiving warmth and abundant light, feels like the perfect container for this messy, beautiful transformation.

so i'm curious… what identities are you outgrowing this summer? what parts of yourself are you ready to shed? sometimes naming them is the first step to letting them go.

sending you all the courage to become more of who you really are.

xoxo, mindy 🤍

p.s. if you're feeling brave, write down an identity you're shedding on a piece of paper and bury it in your garden or a potted plant. let something new grow in its place. (i did this with "perfect girl" last week and i swear my lavender plant is thriving)

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[mindscriptreality]

consciousness · inner work · healing

you are exhausted because you have been at war with a world that was never actually attacking you

think about it for a second — when was the last time you drove somewhere without your jaw clenched?

when was the last time your phone buzzed and your stomach didn't drop a little?

when was the last time something good happened and you didn't immediately start waiting for the catch?

we live like this and call it normal

a stranger cuts you in traffic and suddenly you're furious — heart pounding, muttering under your breath, replaying it for the next ten minutes

a friend takes three hours to reply and you've already written an entire story about what it means

you lie in bed at night running through every possible thing that could go wrong tomorrow

none of it has happened yet — but your body is already living through it

this is what a nervous system that never learned it was safe looks like — it is not a personality trait, it is not who you are, it is a body that got so used to bracing that it forgot how to stop

the anger at the stranger in traffic? that was never about the traffic

it was the accumulation of every small moment you held yourself tight and said nothing — every time you swallowed something down, every time you told yourself to just be fine — and that stranger became the thing that finally tipped it

the worry about things that never happen? that is your mind trying to feel in control of a world it was taught to be afraid of - if I imagine the worst, maybe I won't be blindsided by it -

it is not pessimism, it is protection

but here is the thing nobody tells you —

You cannot protect yourself into peace. You cannot brace yourself into safety. You cannot worry yourself into a life that doesn't hurt.

all that bracing, all that clenching, all that hypervigilance - it is not keeping you safe, it is keeping you tired - it is spending your whole life guarding a door that nobody is even knocking on

— ✦ —

law of assumption says your outer world is a reflection of your inner state - and if that's true, then a person who lives in constant low-level dread is quietly, unconsciously, calling in more things to dread

not because they're broken - but because the nervous system always finds evidence for what it already believes

believe the world is unsafe? you will find proof everywhere believe people will disappoint you? they somehow always do believe nothing good lasts? watch how quickly your hands loosen around the beautiful things

the work is not to think more positively the work is to slowly, gently teach your body that it is allowed to unclench

you are allowed to drive without gripping the wheel like something is about to go wrong - you are allowed to let a slow reply just be a slow reply - you are allowed to sit in a good moment without auditing it for hidden danger

the world is not as hostile as your nervous system was trained to believe

— ✦ —

you have been a soldier in a war that ended a long time ago

it is okay to put down the armour now it is okay to let your shoulders drop it is okay to finally, actually exhale

— ✦ —

[th3princess-diary]

Self Concept Affirmations

Everything works out in my favor

I am full of love and I exude love

I deserve all good things

My life is perfect

I am a masterpiece

All of my beliefs benefit me

I manifest effortlessly

I experience inner piece

I see myself as perfect

I am not like everyone else, I am special

[honeytonedhottie]

self concept in urself as creator⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🎀🗒️

self concept is who you are in ur reality. ur place in reality. so knowing that u are in control of everything in ur reality IS self concept. so when ur doing self concept work its reminding urself that u are god and in control of ur reality.

if ur having trouble not "manifesting fast enough" (and i put this in quotations because manifestation is instant) then ur key is gonna be self concept. u have to do ur self concept work if u wanna stop waiting fr.

the reason why ur waiting for ur manifestations is because u expect to wait. u dont think that it can actually manifest instantly. start expecting ur desires to show up instantly…💬🎀

only YOU call the shots. there is no outside source deciding whether or not u get to experience or have ur manifestation. it all comes down and thats always how its been. now that ur aware, its ur job to nail this into ur brain and put it into WORK.

if ur from a religious household like myself and this seems kind of foreign to u or ur not sure if u agree, all it takes is some repetition. nail it into ur brain with repetition and REPROGRAM ur mind. its so normal to feel skeptical and question it but if u work on ur self concept and get urself to understand these principals YOU'LL SEE IT WORK ✨💕

[honeytonedhottie]

how 2 stop a manifestation spiral⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🗒️

feeling doubtful or stressed when manifesting is normal because they are human emotions and we are human. its normal to get triggered by things in the 3D.

with practice, things in the 3D won't trigger you to the point where u start to spiral because you will be a seasoned manifestor. lets talk about it...💬🎀

AFFIRMING ;

when u feel urself starting to get triggered or u fear that u might begin to spiral. start affirming. if u find that you can't focus enough to affirm then i recommend affirming out loud.

affirming out loud is helpful because if ur saying it with your words u can't think something different. so affirm out loud and ease into affirming in ur head to remind urself of what yk to be true. affirming kills wavering! affirming kills doubt! so keep on affirming until the wavering, spiraling and doubt end.

REVERSE UR THOUGHT PROCESS ;

if ur starting to get intrusive thoughts (which everyone has and its totally normal) but if ur intrusive thoughts are super persistent and u feel like u can't control it, reverse ur thought process. for example...

lets say ur manifesting something and your thinking "this'll never happen because _" then ask why? and continue to ask why until u can't think of a reason. doing so debunks ur limiting beliefs and shuts up ur intrusive thoughts.

HOT TIP ; when the 3D is all up in my face, i just shut it down completely by affirming "idgaf what the 3D says, ik i have (insert desire)" and then i feel relieved because ik its true...💬🎀

TAKE A DEEP BREATH ;

take a deep breath and breathe. remember that manifestation isnt supposed to feel like a chore and its easy, natural, and so much fun. dont lose sight of that because thats how we become stressed and end up not enjoying manifestation.

FEEL YOUR EMOTIONS ;

cry, take a day off, whine but do NOT wallow. i keep a loa tough love rant in my notion for after im done feeling my feelings to put me back in check. but do not bottle up ur feelings when u manifest. feel it and then move on.

because at the end of the day wavering is such a waste of time because you know that this is ur reality, u know that the world is ur oyster and reality is ur playground. the law has no choice but to work.

[honeytonedhottie]

imagination life is your creation⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍭

barbie was so right when she said that life is ur creation, CUZ IT IS. if u asked urself what ur wildest dream was, or what u would do if yk that u cannot fail, what would ur response be? 

and throw away “logic” cuz that’s only a limiting concept that was made by people. manifestation isn’t a logical concept bcuz it exceeds the bounds of logic.

whenever u try and incorporate logic in manifesting you’ll either confuse urself or develop limiting beliefs and that’s not hot 🍭🧁

logic is literally what we r conditioned to conform to, but if u just ditch it and let urself be infinitely powerful LIKE YOU ARE. then you can manifest the illogical.

and when i say logic, im referring to the logic that pushes u away from believing in urself/things as "too big" or "impossible" to manifest. because NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.

moral of the post is to be so completely OUTRAGEOUS with ur manifestation bcuz u can ask for the moon and the stars and the 3D will absolutely give it to you because that’s ur own infinite power, OWN it.  

[honeytonedhottie]

all about role models⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

FIND ROLE MODELS ;

its important to have people that u look up to. people with similar morals and values as you and people who have achieved things that u want to achieve, or things similar to what u want to achieve.

you can find mentors or role models or, simply look up to people even if u dont know them personally. for example one of my role models is kimora lee simmons. i look up to how effortlessly glamorous she is and how much of an amazing business woman she is, shes also a biracial woman just like me.

find traits in ur role models that u already have, whether thats interests, talents, physical similarities etc.

finding role models helps to give u inspiration. something important to remember though is to emulate, NOT imitate. use their qualities and achievements as motivation to discover and develop your own individuality.

for this post im going to focus on one of my role models, the wizard liz because this is a mindset based post...💬🎀

STUDY THE MINDSET OF UR ROLE MODELS ;

their conception of self ; the wizard liz has high standards for herself because she knows her worth. because of that she won't settle and she doesn't let herself get walked all over.

something that liz has said in her videos before was to be okay with people misunderstanding you. dont go out of ur way to get worked up just bcuz someone sees something in a different way then u do.

her conception of self continued ; in another video she says to "make a list of tough situations that you've handled in the past and what skills you used to handle them". she has a lot of trust and belief in herself and her abilities

after taking notes on the mindset of ur role models (like so) i can see what resonates with me and what doesn't, i can see clearly ways in which we are similar and ways in which we are different.

WHAT ABOUT YOU? ;

take time to formulate ur own opinions. take time to think, "hey what do i think about this" without the influence of others views or opinions what do u think originally. grow comfortable with thinking for yourself.

trust ur gut feelings and intuition

be confident in ur own mind and trust that you have the ability to make the best choices for yourself.

another thing, grow comfortable with asking yourself for advice. something that i realized is that often times when we ask others for advice, we already know what we should do but we wanna hear it from someone else but its important to just ask urself some times.

"what do i rly want" or "what is the best thing for me to do" are things that u should be asking urself instead of asking others. dont let others peer pressure you into thinking the way that they do. THATS NOT TO SAY DONT BE OPEN MINDED, THATS NOT WHAT IM SAYING. but im saying think for urself first.

SOME OF MY ROLE MODELS ;

kimora lee simmons - successful business woman, biracial queen, effortlessly glamorous

beyoncé - passionate about her talents and recognized as one of the best in her industry

wonyoung - smart, beautiful, and unbothered queen

jennie - so talented and radiates major it girl energy

britney spears - popstar queen, her music is AMAZING and her energy is palpable

bella hadid - empathetic beautiful human being who speaks up about things that society wants to be silent about

megan thee stallion - educated queen, such a hard worker, strong even when everyone is against her, talented and confident

paris hilton - used the image that the media portrayed for her to make a profit, marketing and business genius, gorgeous and cunty