#sugahoneydew

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My value is in being.

Not doing.

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Everything comes to me in waves.

The money.

The peace.

The stability.

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Be that girl

Catch those flights

Live your best luxe life

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I see my future

I claim it

I deserve it

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Next Year & the Years to Come...

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November moodboard

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I can spoil me

&

Have him do it too

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I just found out that my sd of over two years has been seeing another girl for nine months. I went through his phone, I know I shouldn’t have but he calls her baby and texts her all the time. He’s been seeing her consistently and I honestly don’t know what to do. He acts so loyal to me but then does this behind my back. I have no idea what to say or do. He gives me everything I want so I want to put up with it but it’s driving me crazy.

1.If the two of you agreed on exclusivity, that's a major issue. Either way, you are now fully aware of the terms of the relationship & you can decide what you want to do: say "Alright, two can play this game-but I can do it better", accept the situation for what it is, or completely end the situation.

2.I would say that the simple fact that you felt the need to go through his phone, is a greater hint that something there is not right.

3. Detachment is key. Do not ever allow anyone to hold the power of your own emotions over you. In doing this, you not only maintain your energy, but he will likely notice a change in your interactions and attempt to pander to or placate you.

4. Most importantly: Always be prepared to leave. (Do not play games on this one. If you act as though you are ready to go, BE ready to go.) Never allow a man to believe he has control over you because of what he can give you. Desperation is a breeding ground for undesirable results. So keep him on his toes. Always let it be known that it is a possibility for him to lose you at any time. You are the prize. Therefore, he is the one that has something to lose. Never you.