When He Gives You His Card 💳 💰
How much should you spend? Did he give you a limit? Did he say what it’s for? First off, follow his directions if you want to see his card again. Avoid going crazy spending unusual amounts of money. You don’t want him to decide to never give you his card again, but you also don’t want to be cheap, shy, or miserly with the things you purchase.
Set the expectation low the first time(s) by pinching his pennies and that will be the range of money you lock yourself in. Going below the usual quality you spend on for yourself is not good for you in the end. He’s giving you the card to at least fulfill what you provide yourself, or ideally surpass with better.
It’s like the etiquette of a first date. It’s bad taste to choose the most expensive entree, drink, and dessert. It seems like you’re testing his wallet, oppositedly choosing the cheapest gives off the impression you aren’t familiar with quality things or devalue yourself. This can even be applied to business matters. It’s safe to choose a mid point leaning towards more expensive, while knowing how to pronounce the names and brands. The same concept can be applied to shopping too.















