#sung bora

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“We need more complex female characters!” Y’all couldn’t even handle her:

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MAN THIS WILL NEVER FAIL TO CRACK ME UP😭 THE WAY THEY FIND OUT ABOUT SUNWOO & BORA. AND THEM RUNNING AROUND I CAN'T 😭😭😭

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With all that power you'd think she'd use it for more than just stirring her coffee...

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a message to my youth (reply 1988 thought dump)

warning: this isn't meant to be a coherent review or commentary on reply 1988. i literally just finished the kdrama a few moments ago and i want to preserve what i'm feeling through this entry. this is only a cathartic attempt to show how the kdrama had impacted me in so many ways. also, spoilers!

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to the things that are already gone. to a time that has already passed, i want to say a belated farewell. goodbye, my youth.

watching a kdrama wasn't in my top priorities this year, but things that used to be a part of you would demand to be revisited sometimes. i'm glad that i did, and i'm thankful that it was reply 1988.

taking a nostalgic look at the year 1988, this kdrama tells about the story of five families in a humble block in ssangmun, seoul. for someone born 12 years after the setting, the plot is something strange, a history lesson in the lens of simple households. for someone in the limbo between careless youth and adulting, and someone born in an asian family, this kdrama will feel like home.

culturally speaking, reply 1988 was a beautiful exposition of how asian households run. what got me hooked to continue the drama was the endless saga of giving dishes to neighbors in the first episode. funnily enough, all families ended up having a feast of each house's dinner on their tables.

from a mouthwatering display of korean side dishes, to the trends of 1988 korea (back when jyp himself was a hit lolz jk), to the endless neighborhood gossips, to the flawed and conservative views on politics, and to the tight-knitted family dynamics — one would find this hilarious and relatable, informative even.

reply 1988 was a lot of things, but its casts hold a special place in my heart. the gang had so much love between them and it was so beautiful to see a pure friendship evolve through the years. i wish i could still have loud dinners and drunken nights with my friends when we get into our careers. I would love that.

sung deok sun, the optimistic figure in the group, was a ray of sunshine to me even as a viewer. i love deok sun because her spirits were never faltered by her failures and her status in life. my personality is sooo far from deok sun's, but she was relatable to me when she said she didn't know what to do in her life. she doesn't have a dream, i have a lot of them. even so, the uncertainty is there. i guess we all figure things out in the end. deok sun became a flight crew and was able to earn money for the family. i can't wait to figure out my own path, too.

dong ryong, being deoksun's self-proclaimed soulmate faced the same journey. despite not getting into a prestigious university, it's amazing how he was able to establish his own restaurant and even expand branches! makes you really think that not everything in life can be solved by good grades. honestly, i wish i have his street smarts and wisdom. what a powerful person i would be, then.

jung hwan was the man of few words in the group. he showed his affections not through words, but through his actions (and teases for deok sun). his love language would definitely be acts of service! i love jung hwan. he was a good son, brother, and friend. i aspire to have the kindness that he has. but oh dear heavens i would kill just to see how his love life would unfold had he faced the courage to confess to deok sun. i mean, come on! just be straightforward! they would honestly make a good pair, the ray of sunshine girl and the cold guy.

choi taek, the professional go-gamer, was the baby of the group. like jung hwan, he was a man of few words, except that taek was actually shy. his growth through the series was perhaps the most apparent. his innocent image was eventually changed by the way he picked up curse words from the gang, to his smoking, and to his openness of affection for his family and later on, deok sun. also, his character made me fall in love with park bo gum and his smile!

before i go to the next two characters that i associate myself with, i would also like to comment on the household parents of the block. the fathers here have different personalities, but their identities as providers of the house defined the way they act. they keep a tough act and may be distant to their children, but the love is there even though they don't really know much about the household.

and the mothers, oh dear, the mothers. my mom is not a working entity, but i've seen her struggle through the years. i think her burdens are even heavier than that of my dad's. the way this kdrama portrayed the stories of the mothers touched my heart so much that i couldn't stop my tears. never underestimate a woman's strength, i tell you.

from these figures, i learned so much about adulting and marriage. our parents miss their parents, too. our parents would always worry about us, no matter how old we are. our parents are trying to keep everything together, so they put up a tough front. our parents' wishes are devoted to their children. our parents just want the best life for us. not only us are growing old, but our parents, too. our parents want our attention, too. our parents do not have the perfect marriage, but they would do anything for their children. our parents love us deeply.

okay, here goes my reflection in the kdrama — sun woo and sung bora. initially, i was planning to write an entry only about bora, but i realized that i am in many ways alike to sun woo as well. both characters are the eldest children of the family and they face a lot of pressure in their respective families. both characters sacrificed their dreams because they are limited to what their families can afford. sung bora took math education despite her dreams as a prosecutor. sun woo took medicine because that was what his mom wanted. as for me, i chose a course that would promise a stable salary. i dreamed to work in the field of science or writing, but both paths have unstable pays in this country. i do not come from a well-off family, so i have to set my dreams aside.

bora and i do not share the same personality. hers was aggressive and frank, mine was the opposite. even so, i found a piece of my soul in her character because she was steadfast in her goals and was very understanding of her family's situation. she was the cream of the crop in the siblings, the only one who became a student in the premier university, the talk of the neighborhood. she had strong political stances that made her own parents almost disown her, but she was never sorry for it. when it comes to little things, bora had so much privacy over her things that she would get mad at the slightest unauthorized touch of it. oh dear, if that wasn't me.

sun woo, on the other hand, was nearing my male counterpart. he cares so much about his mom and his sister that he hated the thought of the former working. he was the model student, the one with the straight a's, and the one who acts professionally even with the internal turmoil of emotions. he never opposed his mother's wishes and he loved his sister dearly. he would always hold his feelings in, but gets weak in the arms of a loved one. based on his upbringing and firm values, you would also see how he respects women. i love it.

these two never worked out at first because they prioritized their dreams above romance, but i'm so, so happy that they got together in the end.

reply 1988 was perhaps one of the best slice of life shows that i've ever seen. i wish i had watched this when i was younger, because it would teach you so much about family, love, dreams, friendship, and growing up. the pacing would feel kind of slow because of its movie-length episodes, but i swear it was worth it.

to the youth that i was, thank you for building the youth that i am.

to the youth that i am, enjoy the uncertainty and strive to be a better version of yourself.

to the youth that will be, may you never lose the spark inside your heart no matter how old you are.

i will hear your reply in time.

most ardently,

grace

[fashournalist]

When I was in college, I asked someone what was the best Kdrama she ever watched, of all time. She has seen several Korean TV series already. And she gave me one answer.

I just got to watch that series now. And I can say the same. I still haven't seen a lot of shows, but I think I just watched the best Kdrama of all time. Thanks to my two colleagues who recommended this recently, too!

Reply 1988 💕

The nostalgia, the family dynamics, the strong friendships and ties, the lovely neighbourhood, the realism of it all, and then the love between the eight couples in the show. It's my first time to feel second lead syndrome as well! I was team JH from the very beginning, although I also loved CT and all of them. DR made me smile all the time because of his humour.

I couldn't count how many times I laughed and cried. Starting from the second episode, I cried like a baby when Sung Dong Il and Choi Taek talked about losing their moms. I cried during the wedding, especially when they were reading the letters! I never cried because of any wedding scene before in any other show. But Reply 1988 was that powerful.

While it's usual for me to cry because of shows, it's the very first time I cried tears of joy because of a scene. The time they surprised Ra Mi-Ran on her birthday gave me happy tears. I just felt the spirit of the community so much. I actually felt I was their neighbour the whole time and I was so sad when the show ended.

I get overwhelmed with lengthy dramas, but Reply 1988 was worth every second. See, I've watched a lot recently, such as Breaking Bad, CLOY, My Mister, but it's only now that I wrote about something I watched again. Not that the previous three weren't good (BB and MM are definitely great and critically acclaimed), but it's just that Reply 1988 made me feel so many emotions at once.

I also missed my barkada when I was in second and third grade, because like Deok sun who had four bros, my barkada at that time were four boys. But eventually, I was the only one left in the Philippines. One migrated to Ireland when we were in fourth grade. Another migrated to New Zealand. And in high school, another one of us migrated to Canada. After college, the last of us in the Philippines (aside from me) pursued his dream to be a seaman, and he now travels around the world. I'm proud of them all as they reached where they are now, but I just can't help but imagine what if we lived in the same neighborhood from childhood to adulthood, too?

All these happy Reply 1988 scenes really made me nostalgic. As for childhood friends, I'm happy I'm still in touch with Beverly, my CSBTF. She was the only girl I was close with back then because the rest of my pals as a kid were boys. But Beverly proved to be my sister-from-another-mom until today. Our friendship is turning 17 years old this June!

Reply 1988 is that show that makes you wish you were part of the Ssangmun community, but at the same time, it makes you revisit your own childhood. Sigh. Now I just can't stop reading analysis and comments about it. I could write more but it isn't the weekend.

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Sung Bora x Sung Woo

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BORA'S WEDDING IS A SOB-FEST