little pieces of advice :))
I feel like I’ve really grown this year already + ik it’s like the third or fourth week into 2019 but very recently I’ve found some wisdom + learnt some valuable lessons ! since we still have the rest of the year ahead of us I thought I’d share some things I’ve had the opportunity to learn so far:
• it’s okay to feel sad sometimes
• understanding that to live a full life one must be able to handle the full spectrum of emotions
• it’s okay to feel disconnected from others, people change
• sometimes it’s best to step back + let others figure out what they want without interfering or attempting to control the situation
• people will show how much they care about you in the worst of situations
• everybody has dealt or has to deal with their own issues + they don’t have to share everything
• that being said, for a relationship to maintain itself, communication is key
• be considerate of other people’s feelings, even when you have to put yourself first
• take a look back on your day + pick at least one good thing to have happened (I do this everyday so I have a nice memory of that day)
• sometimes it’s just time to move on + not get hung up on things that won’t matter in the future
• try to make this year the best it can be
• keep the people that make you genuinely feel good close + cherish them
• don’t be afraid to be a little self-centered + show yourself love for your accomplishments
• be kind to yourself, the ones you love, + the rest of the world
that’s all ! I hope this was helpful + I wish you all the best year :)) big love
