'No' Is A Complete Sentence.
One thing you NEVER want to compromise is your energy and how it makes you feel. Your energy feeds everything in your life and creates your reality. Seriously.
No is a complete sentence. You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. If something/someone is compromising your energy, just say no. It doesn’t make you a bad person. Somethings/some people are just not good TOGETHER, even if they are good ALONE.
You are not selfish for not wanting to around energy vampires. Don’t let anyone project that on to you.
Surround yourself with energy that feels good, situations that feel productive, and be the light for others.