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Why are some of the best ships literally like

Just some guy and a fucking god /deity

#amberposting #madohomu #jayvik #gabv1el?#sure maybe #gabv1el #yoshikaru #im pretty sure there must be a ship like this in ggg #soukoku #fyolai maybe?#fyodor isn't a deity but he has those vibes #suggestions from reblogs:#narilamb #leshycat #destiel??#smallshadow #stp maybe??#is the long quiet a god? is the princess a god?? BOTH???#stp

i'm sorry but i'm so sick of wenclair. i want them to be friends. that's special to wednesday because she's never had a real friend before. a girlfriend or a boyfriend? i don't think that shows the level of commitment that they have for each other. they're each others ride or die. they're best friends. and i think making them kiss and have sex and be a stereotypical couple takes away from that.

#and look at the way wednesday treats tyler and xavier #they're tools to her #that's what people have always been to her #that's what a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner is to her #i don't think she's ready for a romantic relationship #do i think they could have romantic feelings for each other?#sure maybe #but i don't think either of them would act on it #wednesday #wednesday season 2 #wednesday netflix

Ok, I was joking with this post the other day, but it turns out I actually do want to talk about whether fucking would have fixed them.

I've seen the take a few times that what makes Silverflint work so well is that it lives in the subtext*, all tension and denial and repression, and if they fucked it would ruin the dynamic because it would be resolved.

And not to make this about me (I'm gonna) but as someone solidly at the intersection of old, slutty and queer, every time I hear this I think about my personal experiences adding fucking to intense, ambiguous relationships in stressful situations where communication about feelings was already not great.

Zero times did it fix anybody.

See: Vane and Eleanor. Also Max and Anne. Incompatibilities in goals, values and worldviews are not resolved by fucking. The work of relationships is different than the work of sex, and in some ways much much harder.

*disclaimer that shouldn't be necessary: subtextual queer relationships in media are great and valid, that is very much not what I am taking issue with.