‘We’re all just walking each other home’.
It is one of Ram Dass’ most famous lines, from his book “Walking each other Home”. After years of hearing the phrase in Svaha Yoga classes, I am still moved by it with every encounter. Why is this short line so powerful? What does this phrase mean, in relation to yoga philosophy? How does ‘walking each other home’ relate to yoga practice, on the mat and in everyday life?
The image that Ram Dass’ sentence evokes is of the warmth, belonging, and safety of ‘home’. It implies a journey and an arrival, of returning home after completion of an arduous trip. Of course, in metaphorical terms Ram Dass’ phrase symbolizes a spiritual journey, and he deploys it in discussions of love, and of death. In this light the line suggests the traveler ‘coming home’ as the journey of the individual seeking personal liberation, spiritual union, or god consciousness.
But Ram Dass’ phrase has an interesting implication – if we are walking each other home, then we are not yet home. We are on the road, still journeying towards the destination. This is quite a contrast with other elements of yoga philosophy, which might be better summed up as the idea that we are all, always, already ‘home’. The non-dualist approach would indicate that the goal is not to get home but to realize that we are home. What is there to make of this paradox? Can we be on the way home, and already home, at the same time?
The resolution to this paradox lies in reading the sentence in its entirety. Ram Dass’ statement is about more than the homecoming metaphor alone; the key is that we are all walking each other home. There is an element of togetherness, collectivity and support in our seeking: it works when we do it together. This is the element that resolves the tension between the journey as both ‘coming home’ and ‘realizing we are already home’. If home is the realization of our mutual interdependence, our interconnection, then the liberating dissolution of the self in union with the universal is both the home towards which we walk and the journey itself. Home is walking together. And for sure this translates to asana practice, and suggests what physical practice and yoga classes have to offer beyond a good workout. After all, the attentive bodily movement that constitutes asana can feel like a homecoming - to the body, to the breath, to the heart. This too, is less an arrival from afar than a realization that we were always home to begin with. It is a model for the spiritual coming home which Ram Dass references. Moreover, practicing together supports that realization or that homecoming. When I sit, or chant, or breathe and move in a Svaha Yoga class, I am aware of the being next to me also sitting, chanting, breathing. I’m aware that we are exchanging the same air, that we are connected. And I’m reminded to pay attention to my own breath, a focus that returns me home to my body and Self. This support allows the physical practice to come alive and become transformative. It transforms ‘exercising while listening to some interesting thoughts from Ram Dass’, into actually practicing, with breath and body. In this manner the yoga practices, or even a yoga class, can become the powerful act to which Ram Dass refers, in which we are all just walking each other home.
Alex Niemeijer Brown, Teacher / Lecturer Svaha Yoga Amsterdam








