speaking as both a dany and sansa fan, i feel like im going crazy seeing some of the arguments people put against one or the other, when it feels like by all rights they'd be friends in the books??? friendly???? dany would absolutely understand sansa's pain and sympathize and sansa would connect strongly with dany's interest in history/songs, imo? am i insane or could there be peace in this fandom lmao
If they met, Sansa would most likely be supporting the Northern Independence cause that all the Northern Lords do and that her family was killed for whereas Dany would want what is hers by right -all of the Seven Kingdoms. There is a chance they will become friends/would be friendly I don't know what goes on in George's head, people are just assuming what could happen. But saying they would clash because of their differing political stances isn't hating on either of them it's just making assumptions based on their characteristics/beliefs.
And to be fair you don't need them to be friends in order for both their fanbases to have peace among them -Cersei and Sansa are canon enemies but their fans are mostly ok with each other.