#sys asks

[relaxxattack]

i'm gonna be so real i can't remember if you've been asked this question before BUT we're determined to ask you more fun sys questions ^^

so this is me prompting you to chitchat about your introjects if you have any! what sources are they from, what roles do they perform insys, etc!

-rosalie aka ghostbur!

ah it’s no problem!

and to be honest i don’t totally talk about them here much because i get sort of embarrassed that they mostly take on forms from hs, pfft. but what can you do about a hyperfixation

i guess probably the person who’d be mostly fine about me namedropping him would be kk! he’s my cohost and manages a LOT of shit for us… interpersonal conflict, communication, scheduling… essentially the main stressors. he’s also sort of a caretaker of the system just by virtue of being able to feel what’s going on with other people and being very loud about it.

he also has his own tumblr! as do a few others but i don’t know if they’d be okay with me tagging them so i won’t. kk’s is @decapoddent and he posts about pretty different stuff than me :]

the other main fronters are the guy who likes doing all my tech stuff and the guy who worries about random things, also one girl who shows up seemingly at random to just do something she wants for an hour or two :] i have more inteojects but it would be too many to talk about here. maybe someday i’ll make some sort of page for them, but i kind of value privacy as well so who knows

[firebettercallnct]

hello i just got home should i edit the next part and post it or do it tomorrow??

[plural-labels]

🤭🤎

🤭 Did you ever have an “oh crap I’m not a singlet” moment?

More like an "oh crap I'm not alone" moment lol. Our partner sys came out as a system (well, not using that term at the time) and we were just like "oh shit same dude!!"

🤎 Do you share favorite colors, or do they vary?

It varies!

[relaxxattack]

8, 26, and 37 for the plural ask game! :-]

8. What was the discovery process like for you?

a lot of my friends helping me look at symptoms and just sort of soul-searching, and heaps and heaps of denial

26. Do you ever feel NOT multiple? Like a singlet, or somewhere in the middle of the spectrum? Do you ever forget you're part of a system?

occasionally, i guess? if i’m in the middle of intense conversation, possibly.

(my cohost wanted to chime in that he often forgets about it because he tends to focus on what he’s actually doing instead of the body or anything like that, as a coping mechanism. interesting!)

37. What's the most awkward experience you can have that you attribute to plurality?

seemingly having interests in things that i personally hate, and then people attributing that to me. for instance, i don’t really like romcoms or makeup, but because someone else does it appears that way, and then when people ask me about say, what my favorite romcom is, i instinctively want to tell them “oh i don’t like those”, but i can’t, because someone else was watching romcoms all day yesterday and that would be hard to explain! so i just have to pretend to like them, or ask that person to front. weird but a little hilarious.

a similar problem is when my cohost is talking about his partner, and he has to quash all instincts to refer to them as “my partner”, because they’re not MY partner… that would cause a lot of uncomfortable questions, and also make me lose my chance with anyone i wanted to flirt with if they think i’m taken fhdjsksj

[firebettercallnct]

i FELT THE ANGST JSDALKFH i feel bad for googie :(( and pls ren is an asshole kill him pls, pls make jay like yn's distant cousin so she can't get attracted tyvm

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[firebettercallnct]

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[firebettercallnct]

"not me bc i deleted one who are u again" JOONSSKSISKSBWIAMAS I WISJ I THOUGHT OF A COMEBACK LIKE THAGS PLS SO SAVAGE SO SEXC 😍😍🤤🤤

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[firebettercallnct]

Yessssss FEEL BAD! 🖕🖕But also pls get together 🥺🥺

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