How have we gone so far back on understanding internet etiquette on this site irt kink posting. No it isn’t “purity culture” or an act of transmisogyny for someone to ask you to tag your posts so people can filter them out. Unless you password protect your blog this is a public space and you’re being an asshole to people just trying to use it and curate their experience by not using the tools that let people do so, aka by not tagging things. You’re not a revolutionary activist for making that dysphoric transmasc see your forcefem post that he’s tried to avoid by putting it in his filter list you’re just an asshole and will be treated like one. Sure no one can literally force you but you’re not the victim for receiving consequences socially and having people not like you because of it. And no, you cannot claim that forcefem “isn’t a kink” you absolute goofball, no one is going to go along with that no matter how much you stomp your feet and cry about how unfair it is that there’s a distinction for the average person between supporting and encouraging transfems to discover themselves and posting about holding people down to inject them with estrogen. The first is fine, and the second is also fine but properly tagged just as any other kink would be if you care about other’s wellbeing, especially other trans people for whom seeing that could be extremely distressing. TL;DR, if you choose to behave like an inconsiderate asshole you will win the prize of people not liking you and telling you to fuck off. You can remedy this by growing as a person rather than doubling down.
