okay i'm saying this once
I don't care how you headcanon the Doctor's gender, romantic orientation, or sexual identity
I don't give a fuck
But the moment you start replying to posts saying that the evidence is from the EU so it isn't canon, or that the quotes are "sketchy" so it isn't canon, or that your definition of canon is different from mine so it isn't canon
I will bring the wrath of a pissed off whovian with access to transcripts and searchable PDFs down on you
there is evidence that the Doctor is nonbinary
there is evidence that the Doctor is asexual
there's less evidence that they're aromantic but what do you care if people want to headcanon that anyway
and I don't care if you headcanon otherwise or you don't think that evidence counts or if you interpreted those lines differently
leave those damn posts alone because your reply is a fucking invitation to those of us who do hold think that and we will start throwing arguments at you
and I have days were I get up because the Doctor is nonbinary and if they can deal with a binarist society, so can I
and I know people who manage because the Doctor is asexual or because the Doctor is aromantic
just deal with people having evidence to support their thoughts
you've got your choice of world-saving cishet heroes
we don't have the same with trans aroace ones