Learning how to be adequately selfish will automatically equate to knowing how to be adequately selfless.

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Learning how to be adequately selfish will automatically equate to knowing how to be adequately selfless.
Self awareness is so important because when you lack it, you will make an unconscious habit of projecting onto others. Whether those projections are positive or negative begins with your own internal dialogue and the way you view yourself.
When you heal, you stop being easily triggered. You stop believing everything someone does is an offense towards you because you’re no longer experiencing life through your wounds. You become easier to be around because the people you want a connection with don’t have to walk on eggshells and are no longer at the mercy of your insecurities.
You don’t owe nay-sayers an explanation for how you choose to navigate through the world, especially when you’re getting the life results you desire. Your intuition/inner compass cannot be explained to those that haven’t learned how to sharpen their own.
- Taryn Andre
Some are only excited to talk to you about themselves while others are excited to talk to you.
Being water dominant + having a pisces ascendant puts aquarius in my 12th house which means I understand the collective or any individual I come into contact with on a subconscious level. I’m often seeing/sensing things from people that they are completely unaware that I’m picking up on. I know what it’s like to have covert enemies; people who role play as friends because it’s beneficial for their ego; They’ll depend on me for help or favors and receive it with no judgment or strings attached but shit talk behind my back, envy or despise me in secret. I sense betrayal long before it happens in my physical reality and I’ve learned to quickly cut the chords. I don’t have to “overstand” anyone’s pain just because I know it’s coming from a deeper place. If you repeatedly show signs of disloyalty, deuces.
You must have the proper mentality to be able to see opportunities presented to you on a daily basis. Everyone and everything is a guru to me, and I find ways to apply whatever useful knowledge that’s given to me freely, towards my goals. That’s it. That’s my formula.
- TA
When you’re willing to give up your voice, individual expression, and freedom just to be accepted and adopt the mentality of a particular group, just make sure it’s not a decision based on fear. Some of y’all are only following ‘’leaders” because you’re completely detached from your own intuition. Perhaps you’re a part of the group because you fear isolation, exile, rejection and your own capabilities. Perhaps that’s the real tea ☕️.