If I'm not comfortable with someone or something then I don't owe them the effort to fix it or an explanation or let them know that I'm upset about something they did - I don't need to do that. I can just leave. I can just go. I don't need to try to fix the friendship - do I think it's a great idea to talk things out and use healthy communication? Of course! Do I owe someone that? No. I can just leave. I don't have to deal with unhealthy behaviors or people and I also don't need a reason to answer why now, why this way, why here, et cetera 🤷🤷










