So I reblogged a post about how everyone is to some extent racist/sexist/transphobic etc from growing up in a society which is these things and also a post about not tarring a whole demographic with the same brush, and the perceived hypocrisy is bothering me, so:
I can, for example, think that saying “all men are sexists” is both factually incorrect and somewhat offensive and at the same time agree that men, and to be honest, many women, who have grown up in mainstream society are, on the whole, going to have some underlying prejudice against women.
It’s possible to construct a hypothetical man who has no prejudice against women, but in real life they are going to be rare just because of how misogyny is embedded into society. Still, most men aren’t active sexists because that requires to act on those prejudices. It’s nearly impossible to completely eliminate a thought but you don’t have to accept it either.
*I’m using misogyny as an example here - this could be expanded to any form of prejudice