If things aren't going well, acknowledge it. Stop judging yourself for feeling tired, anxious, or miserable. Instead of yelling at yourself for not being upbeat in the face of trauma or trouble, speak to yourself with the same understanding and respect you'd use to support your friends and family. Tell yourself you have every right to feel the way you do right now, but that feelings are like the tide. They come and go. And while things are tough today, you're tough, too. You've been through hard times before. You'll get through this, and tomorrow will be a better day.
Wendy Leeds













