((Themoonlightthief & Spider for sad otp))
Sad OTP Meme - Send in a ship and I’ll tell you:
Who gets overwhelmed by small acts of kindness? Either might, it'd depend on their mood when it happens. But generally Spider.
Who flinches at sudden movements? Kaito, and Spider tries to put him at ease when he does.
Who is most confused as to why their S.O. is still with them? Spider's confused as to why Kaito would want to be with him, Kaito's surprised Spider hasn't pushed him away yet.
Who has to constantly check their S.O. still loves them?Kaito, he gets insecure and wonders if he's pushing a relationship and if the assassin really doesn't care and is just humouring him.
Who says the other/s would be better off with someone else? Kaito, actually. Spider too, but Kaito's self esteem is pretty low.
Who gets surprised when they are given gifts? Kaito. He's the gift giver, and Spi isn't, so...
Who is most likely to break down on the other and how does their S.O. attempt to calm them down? Kaito doesn't get them nearly as often, but can still fall into possible panic attacks, and Spider does whatever he can to help that won't make it worse. (Probably holding Kaito, but that might not always be best.)
Who is most self conscious in public? Neither are overly self conscious, but depending on the situation, then it's Kaito.
Who is more likely to apologize a million times for a tiny mistake? Kaito's more likely to apologise any amount over a few times, but Spider curbs that, so neither, in the end.
Who admits they’re scared only when they think their S.O. is asleep and how does the other react? Kaito, when it gets to be a bit much for him to keep in. (Less likely if they're sleeping together, more likely if Kaito drops by where Spider's staying and found him in bed already.) Depending on what's said, Spider might just keep it in mind and react later, or he'll talk with Kaito.
Who never thinks they’re good enough for the other? Both, Kaito with his self esteem, Spider in comparing how kind Kaito is in comparison to him.
Who takes a bullet for the other?Both would, if it came up.