#thequantumqueer

[thanatophobia-thoughts]

Sometimes, this really is what we need to do.

No positive thoughts will help, just a simple acceptance of both the good, and the bad.

Saying “Fuck it” about exercise, is sometimes all that gets me into the gym that day. It’s no longer about how well I perform, just that I perform. Just that I do the thing, and continue with my routine, and my progress. 

Sometimes “fuck it” is all that is needed, and it is a grand life skill to create, in the same way that looking at what a “depressed person” would do, may help motivate you to get out of bad habits, fuck it can also help. 

So use the powers of your fucks. 

[systlin]

i'm working on starting my first garden and i'm on board with not tilling, but you also talk about adding things to the soil and i feel like i'm missing something. does that just mean dumping things on top?

Yep. You can just spread compost on top. Rain will wash it down into the soil, and soil microbes and worms will crawl and burrow around in it and mix it in. 

Spread mulch on top of that, and you’ve created a soil microbe and worm paradise, and all those sweet sweet nutrients will end up in your soil and right where your plants need them. 

[emphasisonthehomo]

thequantumqueer replied to your post “There’s a discussion I wanna have about like race and ethnicity and...”

oh fuck yeah thats a lot. my favorite is when the Race field specifically says "White (not Hispanic or Latino)" and doesn't have an option for mixed race. ive had to abandon job apps before because that was the only option that even sort of fit, and it deactivated the "ethnicity: latino or no?" question entirely

Exactly! Like I always put “other” or whatever if it’s available, but on the DCs they Do Not have that option in Nevada. I don’t know if it’s like that in other areas, I’m assuming it is. But it seems like a huge disservice to the decedent, to force them to be labeled as something they’re not. And it’s not fun for anyone involved, when a family gets upset that grandma from Michoacan is gonna have to be declared white by the state of NV. 

White families occasionally also get pissed about it, if they ask about the HISPANIC ORIGIN Y OR N? But it’s almost always for racist reasons, because they get salty at the implication of a Mexican being called white, so they can choke. 

[dr-dendritic-trees]

my (22M) straight boyfriend (22M) fucked up the plan for my fake suicide and now he's saying he's god because he saved my life, and i think he wants to kill me. ordinarily i would just kill him first, but i don't think he can die (he's definitely not god though). should i adopt a 12 year old necromancer or what?

You should definitely adopt that 12 year old.

I would also recommend a more rigorous scientific methods course. You might have better luck with world-changing experiments if you don’t design them like an over-excited undergraduate.

[vaultsixtynine]

the most important spotify question: what song is number... Seven?

fire by barns courtney, which is unfortunately not a seven song, but a stiffcollar song

[bigeyedchangelingchild]

thequantumqueer replied to your post: .

oh shit are you ok?

I mean like she hasn’t said anything. And like, the reason I’m not out to her isn’t cause she’s cissexist or anything, it more has to do with like being the only “girl” in my generation. But like I’m half really mad at myself for being so stupid, and half anxious about what she’s thinking, like did she even see it, is she mad I’m not out to her, like there’s so many possibilities and most of them involve me not knowing anything of what’s going on.

[gallusrostromegalus]

thequantumqueer reblogged your post and added:

#I am Farfetchd’s 1 fan1) no youre not my useless...

(lol the tag is supposed to read #1 fan but apparently # doesn’t show up in tags.  But I’m glad Onion VonMurderduck has more fans)

[androgynealienfemme]

lapis took at least one bubbled gem with her

shit u right! ! i forgot about the gem in the barn