love grows us, we are but seedlings that found each other 🌱
imagine.
years and years from now, as you sit reminiscing about your memories with your spouse.
a smile appears on your face as you remember how you met, how you fell in love, your first kiss, first argument, memorable experiences, how you changed each other, fit into each other's lives.
it all seemed like just yesterday, but oh how time has passed.
but one thing that made you so glad,
is how despite all, you've been the one for each other.
Pick-a-Pile — “In what ways do you and your future spouse enhance each other?”
🔞 Sexual themes - 18+ only - this is NOT for minors 🔞
Pile 1 🦋 Pile 2
Pile 3 🦋 Pile 4
Pile 1
Cards: The High Priestess, Eight of Pentacles, Four of Wands, Strength (r)
I'm seeing two individuals with harmonious temperament coming together as one. You complete each other in the sense that you fill in the blanks where otherwise would be solitary and one-dimensional, meaning that if you don't have one another in your lives it would not have the same colour and excitement like when you have. You are two sides of the same coin, the yin and yang. You understand their thoughts and ambitions. You see through your spouse in a way that is intuitive and natural. They hear the words you don't speak. They are empathetic with your emotions and offer the shoulder you need. This relationship seeks not to simply exist, but to be in each other's embrace. When you are in love and live in one another's presence, the days grow shorter and the nights warmer, for this is a love that cares not time and space, but presence and warmth. I hear, “There's no one that completes me like you do.”
You bounce ideas off each other. You are a couple but also teammates. When there's a project or a certain issue to tackle you both sit down and work on it seriously. They're very pragmatic but sharp. You are very creative and get straight to the point. They honestly feel that you are quite savage when you put on your game face. They're not afraid to be blunt and direct if they have to. They enjoy seeing your fierce side and relish in seeing the side of you that you normally won't show.
Because you both have such a deep understanding of what the other wants, it makes living together very easy. One day you both decide you'd start a life together, maybe build a family, and it will go quite smoothly from there. There'd not be much “awkward roommate” moments that happen whenever two people start sharing a roof. You both have drive, heading in the same direction and want the same things. There's not much discord between you, although you can expect the usual arguments and slight difference in opinion, but they're mostly minor arguments. At the end of the day, you stick to each other like glue, but not in a clingy sense. I get that you both are people who need space of their own, but when you're together, you are together.
There is a playfulness in this relationship that tends to keep you both on your toes in a good, teasing way. You enjoy a good banter. I hear, “Two can play the game”. I get that the feminine person is the one who likes to tease and always gets the masculine person pining for them, unable to resist the allure. The attraction is intense and sensual. You are both magnetic to each other. The feminine person has a more elegant energy, like a lavender flower softly dancing in the windy evening. The masculine person has a more stoic energy and I feel that they might appear more solid and intimidating, their stance communicates solidness and radiates quiet fortitude.
Pile 2
Cards: Five of Wands, Knight of Swords, Six of Swords, Temperance
You both might have had similar life experiences prior to meeting each other. I sense kindred spirits, where both are very empathetic and understanding of one another. This makes for a close and intimate relationship. This is a couple that holds hands and have late night chats from dusk to dawn. You feel so drawn to each other as if this is destiny, and truly it is.
In every sturdy relationship there is friendship. You don't stop being friends just because the connection has gone romantic. This friendship has trust and closeness as its core. No matter what happens around you or how life has changed, the love between you remains sturdy and resilient. You both know you have each other's backs.
You fill the gap in one another. When one is lacking or less proficient in one matter the other is stronger at it so you both work seamlessly as a team. This dynamic is more prominent when it comes to day-to-day life as well as work or tasks. You are both practical individuals who like to lead active, productive lives. You constantly motivate each other. This supportive rapport is one of the things that connect you both so closely.
Intimately, this is a couple that likes to be pampered and just enjoy each other's touch and presence. You'd likely enjoy perfume, essential oils or candlelight during intimate moments. Slow dances by sensual music, taking a bath together while having quiet chats. Life is slower when you are together, for it is spent with enjoyment and slow delight. You enjoy exploring each other's ergonomic zones, enjoying and relishing in the tender moments. They might surprise you with the things they say to you, determined to arouse you with their dirty tongue and wild imagination. The desire stretches beyond the bed even into mundane things like giving you a massage after a long day, making you coffee, surprising you with flowers. You will be very giving to each other. Random surprises and gifts will be a constant theme in your love life.
They'd just like a taste of you. You keep them intrigued and drawn, like you are a mystery they want to indulge in over and over again. This intrigue you inspired in them has been present ever since they know you. Slowly they want to get to know who you really are, why you do the things you do, the nature of your chemistry. To you, they are this grounding rock that makes you feel so secure and loved. They are your constant, and you complete each other in more ways than one.
Pile 3
Cards: The World, Four of Swords, Eight of Swords (r), The Sun
This is an unlikely couple. You both seem to come from different worlds or backgrounds. You were not each other's type at first and there are very little things that really connect between you. The connection itself is very refreshing and different to what you both have had in your dating history. How would you enhance each other? Simply, because you are so unique to one another, you are able to show each other the slice of life that offers a different perspective. What previously was thought to be worlds apart quickly integrate as one as you explore the differences in one another and quickly find what is similar — the thirst for life and the unwillingness to fit inside a box.
You are not one to back down from making your voice heard. You are opinionated, fiery, you take action towards what you want. They respect that fire in you. They themselves are assertive and like a good debate, although they are usually more chill and easygoing. You share similar views on certain topics, but different opinions on others. When views clash and you feel yourselves pulled into different directions it's when you openly debate your beliefs but would still be respectful and willing to listen to each other.
This connection begins with this dynamic until sparks fly. When they do fly and you realise there is more to each other than just bickering friends, the realisation that you're in love would be quite a shocking revelation. Like, you'd both backpedal and not sure of what you're feeling at first. They'd likely try to rationalise their feelings, and you'd likely try your hardest to ignore what you're feeling and show how uninterested you are. Love is love though, and the attraction is too strong to ignore. I see that for some of you the confession would happen in a heart-to-heart talk, for others of you it will happen in the spur of the moment when neither of you could hide it no more and you just... let it all out. Despite all, you are a couple that will always be honest with each other and supportive of one another. Independence and honesty are major themes of this relationship. When both of you make the decision that you're going to be together there's no stopping you. You'd begin to plan the future around each other. The love seeps into your daily lives as the bedrock and constant rhythm, showering love and support. You keep each other going. You give each other a purpose. If you both commit to a project or task, you can trust that you'd both make the best of it.
When it comes to the intimate dynamics, you or your partner might be a switch, or one of you might be the Dominant while another the submissive. There is a D/s dynamic for sure, and both of you might switch it up sometimes. I hear, “stroke my ego”, the dominant person enjoys having their ego stroke and to be the king in the bedroom. Playing a submissive character that's so different from their usual self excites the submissive so much. The fantasy of being at their partner's beck and call is a major turn-on. The sexual chemistry is intense and fulfilling.
Pile 4
Cards: Three of Cups (r), The Hierophant, Judgement, Two of Wands
You both find your dream come true in each other. There is an obsessive undertone in this relationship, not in a toxic sense. You're both so drawn to one another that you'd feel the attraction pulling you in right from the bat. It starts first as flirty with a sexual undertone. You might want to slow down before it catches fire, but it's your call. They might make their desire obvious, while some of them might try to hide it at first.
Although it starts off as sexual attraction, whether or not you choose to bed, you'd grow to know each other as the person you are. It's as if it all clicks, you have similar interests and might have similar aspirations for the future. You'd start to share in each other's lives in the form of hobbies and shared projects. Learning to be comfortable in each other's presence is a big theme when you first get together as friends. Soon this connection solidifies into mutual rapport, and this is when romantic feelings start to bud between you.
Inside every person is a rabbit hole that goes deep within, containing layers and layers of self. They help you discover your true self in a liberating, enlightening way. It's with their openness and readiness to accept you that you begin to step into your true power, embrace your flaws and accept the person who you truly are. On the other hand, through interactions with you they'd begin to see their own flaws. This would likely cause them to question themselves in self-reflecting ways, whether they've been wrong, how to be a better person and so on. Some of their old perceptions might shatter, to be replaced with new insight. You are mirror reflections of each other, as through the eyes of one another you will see yourselves without bias or ego. This dynamic feels very spiritual and raw, as a cleanse is in order before you step into a relationship with renewed selves. The past has to go.
You are a couple that likes to experiment in the bedroom, or rather outside of it if you catch my drift. You like risk and spontaneity when it comes to love-making. I see kinks like exhibitionism, anal play and sex toys. They might be fond of tattoos. You might like to swim together. The beach (or nudist beach) might be your favourite places to enjoy intimate moments at.
