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"I'm on the road of least resistance, I'd rather give up than give into this. So promise me only one thing, would you?Just don't ever make me promises.. No promises."

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I just saw this picture from a friends timeline and then random thoughts suddenly came into my mind. So I decided to write something along with this photo.

If you are a team, if you both have the same wave length, if you two have the same wants. IF.

I used to dream of a relationship where consistency, honesty and trust is there. 

A relationship where you’re being motivated to do or give more than your 100%. 

A relationship where doubt and lies doesn’t exist or at minimal.

The kind of relationship in which you wouldn’t feel obligated but both knows their responsibilities.

A relationship where you can talk about everything, so open that you’d be able to tell everything to your partner regardless of the cons.

A relationship where loyalty and faithfulness is always there.

A relationship in which both partners respect and fight for each other.  

A relationship where lust and love collaborates.

A relationship where you listen to each other and accept each others flaws.

But then, most often than not, we always ends up in a relationship that is nowhere near what we dreamed of and worst we end up in a relationship which is the total opposite of what we dreamed of. Yes, there might not be a perfect relationship, but everyone have their own perspective about their situation, its just a matter of how you look at things so you could turn it upside down. 

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The Negative and Positive Hype

Love, what is love? When is the right time to love? Who to love or who should you fall in-love with? Why is there a need for love? Where could we find the perfect love?

Those are just some of the questions involving love, though we all know there is more to it than what was mentioned.

People sometimes interpret love in different aspects, individual differences makes us see it in different point of views;

People who had their heart broken either learn from it or be like the one who hurts them. More often, these are the types of people who needs a lot of understanding once they’re engage to a new relationship. It takes a lot of hard-work to deal with these kinds of people because most of them are traumatized because of what happened in the past. They’ve been taken for granted, physically abused, emotionally they may have been denied, lied to and many more. So if you’re going into a relationship with these kind of people, better be prepared for worst and make sure you’ll never do the same thing their previous significant other did, so prepare to STAY no matter what and how hard it gets.

There are also some individuals who needs a very special treatment, these are the ones who thinks that they’ll never meet someone because of their situation, maybe because they were sick, dying and as for what I’ve experienced most of this type of individuals are female, single moms. Some of them thinks that they’ll never get same relationship they’ve been dreaming of because of the excess baggage, there might be an issue or a problem not just with the other partys’ side but sometime society also gives demotivation by sending in wrong signals. So if you bump into these kinds of people, don’t cause anymore damage because most of them are always on the verge of giving up the idea of love, relationship and commitment. So if you cannot commit and give your 100% then don’t ever engage with them in a relationship, you’ll just make everything worst.

Today, one of the most common issues is the confusion between love and lust. Social media sometimes define who should we love, we see their pictures online, get infatuated, be an acquaintance then meet up not knowing the real side of that person. You decided to meet up because physically you like that person, you wanted to get laid, that person is well-off and can get something from him/her, you’re assured in terms of financial aspect, you can display him/her because that person looks good and your friends will envy you. Things like those are very common nowadays and I just don’t know how are they doing it, so I don’t have a say to that.

Well, love is something we cannot really define when our heart is really into it, love is something that we don’t choose or we cannot choose. We fall inlove not knowing why, we fall inlove without any reasons, sometimes when you’re inlove you just love no matter what the cons is.

We don’t choose love and we have no control of love, the only thing we can decide for ourselves is who to love, how to love them, what kind of love it is you have for them, why are you still loving them and when you should stop loving them.

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How Do You Love A Broken-Hearted Girl

In every relationship there’s always this part where you see yourself on the verge of giving up, thinking if what you’re doing and all of your efforts are still worth it. Of course, at times you will see yourself as if you’re the only person who wanted everything to work out and you’re the only one who’s fighting for your relationship. Which sometimes is normal.

But what if you’re in love with someone who had her heart broken many times, someone who gave it her all but things didn’t worked out fine, someone who choose to stay but was cast aside by her partner. Would you give up that easy? Would you still see yourself on the verge of giving up? 

I saw this post that was shared by a friend and kinda relate to it as to what I’m currently doing. So I decided to re-post it here in #Tumblr.

How do you love a broken-hearted girl: Have a lot of patience. For she is lost, lost in track and in need of your guidance. She acts strong but she isn't. She is so fragile. Why? People in the past damaged her, hurt and left her, and it made her hard and cold. If she needs time for her self, let her. Do not think that she doesn't love you anymore. She needs time for her self. too. Give love like there is no tomorrow, like every minute is the last minute. Efforts— very important. Effort makes her feel that she is special and worthy of your time. Forgiveness— for she will surely make you cry. Make you scream, make you want to give up because of her attitude and mistakes; which she doesn't mean at all.. Still forgive her. She doesn't know what she is doing. Lastly, stay. Stay no matter how hard the situation is. No matter how messy things get. You will overcome it. Just stay. Don't be like those people who left her before. Stay, she needs you, she just acts like she doesn't.

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You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves

You deserve someone who stays no matter how passionately you display your love and how fearlessly you show your emotions. You deserve someone who is not afraid of the way you love them.

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