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[lonebluewolfpublishing]

Thursday Insight: When Correction Becomes Compassion

Coddling creates comfort. Correction creates character. A boy learns strength not from being shielded — but from seeing men who model grace, truth, and self-control.

Real male presence doesn’t dominate. It disciplines through love.

It’s how boys learn that accountability isn’t rejection — it’s respect.

[dominicanslovehaitians]

Last week I found glasses I used to wear when I was a teenager. The prescription was pretty much the same. The face a little less naive a bit more wiser. And if I could go back and tell her something what would it be? I would say leave them boys alone lol... love is not sex and if you want sex cuz your body needs sex have it and feel no shame. And when Love enters your life you will be grounded in knowing love for yourself not a physical need. It will not mean you are not loved, it will not mean you are not worthy, it will not mean you are too fat, too skinny, to intelligent, too strong, too forceful too anything. When love comes it will not be sex it will be two souls coming to uplift each other even higher. I don’t ever want to be needed like you need water, air, and food. I am not an entertainment system to make you happy. Happiness can only be found within. It is not conditional or based on someone else’s moods or emotions. I would tell that girl to travel more. The boy will either stay or go but you will always be taken care. Because You can take care of you. And you have a pantheon or super beings watching your back and clearing your path. So cry less, laugh more. Enjoy the solitude as much as you enjoy the dance. Enjoy the company of others and yourself. Be afraid and fearless. So I take off my old glasses and put the clear frames back on. Remembering. You can take care of you. Be afraid and fearless. Love is meant to uplift the Union. Asé. #ramblings #clarivelruiz #rolls #ruminations #thursdayinsight #reflections #blackthought #love