A lot of women are victim of betrayal, and this causes them to let their insecurities drive their whole life. Betrayal destroys a woman, physically and emotionally. It cause a woman to think she’s unworthy, and think that probably there’s something wrong about her. That’s terribly shameful.
It’s hard to deal with men’s problem. They couldn’t resist betraying the woman they love. Now, the question is, why do men cheat?!
They think that they were a superman of every lonely woman around. Cheating has the capability to make a man feels strong and protective especially when women throwing themselves to him. He feels like he should listen, he should make every lonely woman flattered, and makes them feel that he’s always there to understand and so he began thinking he’s rare.
They can’t help themselves to stay faithful to one woman. There are actually men who can’t help themselves to be a one-woman man, simply because they become bored and restless. There are men who don’t like being owned, and don’t prefer to have a proper relationship. They find their happiness bedding different women, new woman in bed is a novel for them. It’s like no woman can settle him down because his happiness is to taste all the courses on the table.
Their nature pushes them to cheat. Their hormones make them naturally promiscuous. They can’t control their urge for casual sex. They just don’t think on the consequences when there’s an opportunity for them to cheat. For men like this, sex is a hunger deep inside in the same way that some people can’t quit smoking, or how some people love to eat chocolates.
"Yes, it’s true that a man’s sex drive is more acute than woman’s, and the urgency he sometimes feels makes him more likely to accept sexual advances." - Dr. Alan Riley (specialist in sexual medicine)
"Men have stronger animalistic urges" - Anne Tan (psychologist)
But for me they should not use it as an excuse to cheat. I don’t believe that men can’t help themselves because there are a lot of strong men that I know who can fight for their urges, just because they value their wives, their children, family or their girlfriends more than their selfish desire.
Just a simple advice: A hungry rare man will buy some food, will bring it home and can handle his starvation while he’s on his way home just because he think it would be nice to eat it with his whole family. But a hungry jerk, stupid man will just eat and go home. Just to survive his hunger.Make sense.
