shit i feel insecure about as a genderfluid person:
that maybe my gender isn't real
that i'm doing it all subconsciously for attention
i'm not valid enough as i don't fit into the stereotype
if i was to post a pic of myself without any info about me on this website most people would just think i'm a cis girl
my period doesn't make me feel super dysphoric and that's something that invalidates me
that maybe i can't call myself trans
my pronouns change too much, even though i'm genderfluid and i'm supposed to do that
i'm never going to have the confidence to come out irl about my gender
i'm annoying people on my twitter with my third gender change and my second name change
i've learnt that a lot of other people have these feelings too, however. it's a lot better for me to be open and get asks from you that say "thank you for this blog" or just have people come in with their own queries. to me that means 1- you trust me and think that i must know everything about gender (i don't lmao i wish) and 2- you appreciate this blog. you guys mean the world to me and i've only known y'all for a couple of days, thank you so much <3
edit: the title used to say genderqueer but i've changed it to genderfluid now as some people got confused :) hope it's clearer now