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i want nothing more than a binder and a flat chest but i'm scared it wont make me any flatter bc i already have a fairly flat chest. help
it will compress, do not worry. i dont know a lot about binders unfortunately but whatever is on your chest will go down! :) good luck with your binder and stay safe!
I keep on questioning my gender and I'm pretty sure I'm not female (I was assigned female at birth) but I'm also just so confused, I'm out as gay which was already terrifying so I don't want to have to go through it again to come out as gender fluid and I feel like I am okay with being a tomboy but then every now and then it just hits me that something is wrong with the way I am right now. sorry for the ramble, I'm just so confused.. thanks for letting me ramble :)
no problem! i think you were just asking to rant so ill let that be, but do know that people will accept you! come out when you are ready and safe <3
Is there a gender neutral version of Mom or Dad?
parent i guess ksjsksksks
i've been realllyyyy questioning my gender recently.. like i thought i was a cis girl but it just?? doesn't 100% fit me??? and i'm really not sure how i feel. i mean.. i mostly identify as female but some part of me feels like maybe i'm nb?? or demi or fluid and i just don't know. someone mistook me for a boy and was using he/him pronouns and i didn't really care????? i'm a mess and i don't know what i'm doing anymore :)) thank you for listening to my rambling aaaaaa
i cant determine your gender! what you label yourself is entirely up to you and what you actually are is something only you know. experiment with labels and pronouns, good luck! i love you and so many others do too<33
Do you have any tips on how to get used to a new name? I recently asked my friends to call me Ollie but because itâs summer I donât see them often and havenât quite gotten used to it yet
get a game that uses your name a lot (animal crossing for mobile maybe)write it downget internet friends to refer to you as your new nameorder something and wait for your name to be called
Sorry if you did this a while ago but a new name???? Awesome!
thank you! it took be two times to get a good one but ive finally found something i can settle on <3
Are you supposed to still be able to see cleavage while wearing a binder? I think mine might be too big. There are also gaps at the armpits and back of the neck and a crease underneath where my boobs are (like itâs folding over).
perhaps go only one size down! since im closeted and dont have a binder, i really couldnt tell you, but i suggest doing some research (that isnt from a clueless tumblr user) that make the decision.remember though- its better for it to be too loose than too tight. it could cause dysphoria, but if you bind too tightly for too long you might not be able to permanently change it (top surgery). be careful! ily
oh wow someone else needs money
paypal.me/bvgbvtch
yes hello itsa me this time! Short version: top surgery is v expensive, and I cant chest bind due to be autistic and recovering from surgery. Iâm looking at $10,000 AUD out of pocket, or I have the option of private health insurance (which is still $5000 AUD out of pocket + insurance expenses) so if youâve got a couple of bucks to spare Iâd appreciate it!
Oh and reblogs are just as good thank you!!!
If you want something in return here are some things i could do for you! (Youâd have to message me to discuss this stuff)
Write something (including poetry)
Doodle something (just in lead pencil or texta, Iâm not fancy)
Do a three card tarot reading
Make you an icon feat a character(s) of ur choice with pride flag backgrounds
Maybe even a collage or like a mini zine depending
Assign u a fursona
Idk name an iron golem whatever u want in minecraft
Iâm open to ideas just talk to me please I need the money my chest dysphoria gets so bad some days itâs AwfulTM
signal boosting! just saw this while scrolling through the nonbinary tag and thought i could help reach out to some people!
!!!!! My friends are so supportive of nonbinary people and itâs going to make coming out so much easier !!!!!
!!!! im so glad you have that well done !!!! sending my love, good job on coming out!
is nb included in trans- or? iâm nb but i do know tht the white stripe on the trans pride flag stands for nb right? i just wanna make sure iâm not intruding peopleâs safe spaces asdgsjsw
yes! trans is not being the gender you were assigned at birth. you wouldnt be intruding anyones space. however, some may only want binary trans people in a particular space (to talk about their specific experiences), but most trans spaces should welcome people who fit under nonbinary :)
yall hear about fucking hb2796
NO IâM FUCKING SERIOUS HAVE YâALL HEARD ABOUT FUCKING HB2796 WHICH LITERALLY FUCKING EXCLUDES TRANS PEOPLE FROM CIVIL RIGHTS LEGISLATION
Iâm going to keep fucking reblogging this
â No Federal civil rights law shall be interpreted to treat gender identity or transgender status as a protected class, unless such law expressly designates âgender identityâ or âtransgender statusâ as a protected class. â
@yall I see ignoring this please dont. I get it its upseting, but this is IMPORTANT information that could SAVE our lives and our rights.
Also this boils down to stripping rights away from intersex and trans ppl from what I understand, meaning that we would no longer be protected under federal law. This is scary. Call your reps and get this shut down as soon as you can. We can beat this together. We need each other right now. Share this, spread this information.
how you can help:
call your local senator and representatives! websites like 5calls tell you your national representatives based on your location and if you use their mobile site, you can call those representatives through their site. they donât yet have hb2796 on their site, but you can use their system regardless!
here is an example of something you can say: âMy name is (your name) and I am a constituent in (your town/city/district). Â I strongly oppose house bill 2796, which aims to remove gender identity protections from civil rights legislation by forcibly clarifying âgenderâ or âsexâ to indicate only a personâs assigned gender at birth. Transgender people require civil rights protections as a vulnerable part of our population, and it is extremely important to me that they receive those protections. Thank you for your time and attention.â
IF YOU LEAVE A VOICEMAIL: leave your street address to ensure your call is tallied!
when you call, they will not argue with you, and basically just tally how many people contact them on a certain issue. also, if you want to support other issues on the 5calls site, donât be afraid to make multiple separate calls! call volume matters and if you call more separate times it will be better.
Dammit I hate to use this blog for this but- from one trans guy to yall- this is important!
It looks like this bill isnât getting fast tracked and is actually going through the entire legislative process so keep at it!
This is important. Calling all witches! contact your representatives and then get out those spell ingredients!
Today is August 25th, 2018.
HB 2796 is still in this stage:
It has not passed the House. Keep it up, folks. Eliminate this monstrosity.
Also how you can help:
Who proposed this bill?
Where do they live?
Whatâs their personal number? Email?
Make them afraid, change best comes from a place of understanding. So our message need to be very clear. Phone bomb if you can though, def if you can afford it. But donât be afraid of extremes (hypothetically). đđŸ phone bombing is like psychological ddos! Less efficient but still somewhat effective (as long as those in power continue to allow that avenue).
is it possible to make a call when youre in australia, or send an email. because of the state/district thing.
ALSO TO ANY OF MY FOLLOWERS
Okay so idk if you got my ask from a couple days ago but it was anon and I donât want to miss your reply so Iâm just not going on anon. Iâve recently discovered that I am genderfluid but Iâm kinda scared to tell my gf bc theyâre non binary and I donât want them to think that Iâm âstealing their thingâ or something... I was wondering if I could get some encouragement/tips,,,, well thatâs about it ~okaythanksbye~
i think ive already answered your anon one but ill say it again: its great to know another gnc person irl. they wont think that youre "stealing their thing", whatever that is. i had the same fear when i came out irl to a couple of people who were also gnc, but they were great and were happy to help me and answer my questions.
Would you be open to having another mod to help out? It'd be ok if you weren't, just asking! (Btw I looooooove this blog <3)
im not looking for another mod at this point in time, sorry. im just,,,, very obsessive and a control freak sksksksk
hey I just read your post of things you feel insecure about and the bit about wondering if youâre subconsciously faking it for attention : I read a post on tumblr once that basically said if you have to ask yourself if youâre faking what youâre feeling, you arenât faking it. that really helped me and I think about it a lot when I feel the way you described and it makes me feel better and valid. also I just found your blog and I think itâs really great :)
thank youu! also: "if you are asking yourself a question for a long time, chances are you already know the answer." that one helps a lot for me tooim so glad this blog is helping you also <3 go get some snuggles ilu
another great youtuber who educates about gender is ash hardell
!! for anyone
so most of my life iâve identified as a cis girl, but lately iâve been feeling like iâm not fully female, whatâs wrong with me
theres nothing wrong with you! take your time, experiment with pronouns. maybe you might like they, perhaps youre a nonbinary girl. i couldnt tell, because your label is 100% up to you
