#transabusive

[lycanthropypersonified]

Hey hi btw guys don’t interact with people/beings in ways that they haven’t explicitly consented to. Idc if ure trans cis tris harmful or abusive or hateful or whatever, transitioning or being harmful to people in general should be consensual, otherwise it’s just like… morally bad imo, and we shouldn’t be doing morally bad things,, I feel like that’s common sense but I guess not for some beings..

[morally-yikes-ig]

I've heard a lot of ppl talking about cisharmful vs transharmful identities and I want to talk about my opinion on this and how it differs from being trans.

"If you dont accept cisharmfuls bc they're harming people, but accept transharmful bc they haven't yet than you don't see that being as their ID! That means you dont see trans people as their gender either" is the idea I've heard thrown around, basically. So here's my hot take I suppose.

There's a big difference between types of transID.

Transharmful identities aren't just social identities like genders are but action-based identities. The fact is you can identify as harmful all you want, and you are your ID, to an extent. But because harm is an action that you must act onto another person I personally will never see a transharmful person as truly harmful unless they have/are transitioning.

Unlike harm, gender (and other things like race) are purely social and cultural, which means you are your gender 100% even without transitioning.

So yes, you can see certain transIDs differently than their corresponding cisIDs bc not everything is merely a social pr cultural construct like gender is.

This does not mean you should belittle someone's identities tho. Everyone and their identities are valid. I'm just stating why I personally will act differently between trans and cis harmful individuals. I also act differently between trans and cis gendered people too, due to their different experiences from one another

[permajigglybelly]

Reminder that you CANNOT be a system choosing to undergo final fusion and be anti-radqueer. Final fusion is inherently transsinglet which is a transid aka a RADQUEER IDENTITY.

[jaybirdnlexi]

Us when

[utahimenightmare]

forgive you? hmmm...i dunno! you shouldn't have done it in the first place. maybe i'll feel better if you let me wrap my hands around your neck for a while, or test my new knife. i thought you want me to feel better? what am i supposed to do with this anger then, suffer through it cause of you? it's your own fault. you hurt me. i get to hurt you now. stop being so fucking selfish for once in your life. can you do that? you think you can fucking do that?