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Why pants as a trans man are hard

Too tight in the thighs

Muffin top™️

Waist too tight, legs too long??

Butt.

Can baggy pants come back in style pls

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Trans-I-Am Chat

We opened a Discord server for chatting much like how we used to have a Kik chat. Hopefully this will be more secure. I’m not entirely sure how it all works yet but if you’d like to join here’s the link:

https://discord.gg/EKdRp9p

Check out the Trans-I-Am community on Discord - hang out with 1 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

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Hey guys!

With the recent activity of tumblr, we have decided to take a new direction, as social media is very hard for me to keep up with and is very straining. I have decided to take this train to YouTube. We would love to hear what you would like to see from us! What could we do for you! What would like to know from/about us? I would appreciate hearing from as many people as possible so please share this around!

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10,000 followers!

Thank you for all of your support through all of this! We are in the middle of switching a few things up so please continue to bare with us! We are always open to all asks, submissions,and messages! We appreciate each and every one of you and we will continue to support each and every one of you!

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A few fashion tips for our Transfeminine friends

This is simply a list of a few tips you can use to relieve some dysphoria you may have about certain aspects of your body. This is meant to help with a few key problems that are common among transfeminine individuals specifically amab people. You may not be able to relate to all of these or some of these tips may not be helpful to you specifically due to dysphorias or for safety. We sincerely hope that some of these may be able to help a few people make some changes that will improve how they feel about themselves. 

1. A very common problem among a lot of our taller friends trying to find feminine clothing to wear, is that pant legs are just never long enough. Current fashion trends however do relieve some of this. The solution to this is really simple, you can roll up the legs of your pants just slightly; this will look as though they are shorter on purpose! 

2. If you feel like your legs are too long, you may want to avoid high-waisted bottoms, as this exaggerates the length of the leg and appears to raise the point where the leg actually starts. You can look for low-waisted pants or avoid leg dysphoria all together by using a mid-length (or longer) skirt or dress that hides the leg length.

3. Another common issue to have, is to feel as though your shoulders are too broad or prominent. The key to this, is instead of simply finding clothing that hugs the shoulders tightly, try to find tops that add more of a thickness to the hip area, this can mean that the shirt flares or “poofs” out on the lower half, giving your top half a more of that “women’s bathroom symbol” look (I promise it’s not as lame as it sounds). You can also use a more flared dress to add volume to your hips to balance the shoulders, you can even cut it with a belt around the waist to add a curvature to your waist and balance between top and bottom of your body.

4. If you’re uncomfortable with your height or really any aspect of your body, and it makes you very uncomfortable, here’s a good one that’s really underrated: TEXTURES, PATTERNS, AND ACCESSORIES!! The brighter and more obnoxious, the better. Yes people will look at you, but they aren’t actually looking at you, but what you’re wearing. I’m not saying just pick out the literal worst obnoxious thing you can find at a thrift store, you can be fashionable and trendy at the same time. This is a very good trick to distract people from your most self conscious parts, and tell people that you’re confident with how you look, which is also something that subconsciously makes people feel more positively about you, which is definitely not a bad perk to have! 

5. Jumpsuits are the best fashionable yet comfortable outfit without actually just wearing pajamas for the rest of your life, but nobody said you couldn’t wear one to bed! A jumpsuit is great for reducing height, it’s loose fit helps to avoid all the discomfort that comes with a lot of the tight fitting clothes made for feminine individuals, and despite having been considered a more masculine item in the past has taken on a recent turnaround as a feminine fashion item. However this is a little more ‘up there’ in the fashion realm and isn’t for everyone, but it’s not an item that typically comes to mind, so it’s good to put the option out there.

6. This next one is really only going to help if you’re comfortable with your legs. If you feel like your butt just isn’t getting the attention it deserves and you’re feeling like it might be a little smaller than you’d like, you may actually want to try high waisted bottoms and especially in the summertime, short shorts are actually quite effective and making a butt look a little bigger if you’re comfortable enough to try it. This isn’t typically a strong dysphoria, but any dysphoria is valid and deserves to be addressed.

7. If you have a body shape that makes you uncomfortable, don’t feel bad about layering up! This doesn’t have to mean hiding away, as you can put on a light cardigan or poncho over many things including a two piece outfit or even a dress while still portraying confidence. Scarves can also make a chest look a little more prominent. Remember to allow flow in your choice of clothing, ignore sizing, because we all know how screwed up women’s sizes are and it’s much better to be comfortable in a larger size than to wear a smaller size and be uncomfortable.

8. If you are a little larger, and are uncomfortable and wish to smooth out your shape, you can use high-waisted shorts and skirts to do just that.

9. If you have dysphoria about your face and you have long hair, you can add layers to your hair or add some texture such as curls to cover a little more and create a little bit of a distraction, the same way wearing patterns and accessorizing can help. Coloring your hair or even altering the color a little, like brightening a light colored hair can also have a similar effect.

10. Love yourself and have confidence with everything you wear! In the end it really doesn’t matter what you wear as long as you like it and you are comfortable. You will see yourself more than anyone else so don’t just try to impress everyone else. Any concerns about how you look are valid, but please try not to get too caught up in trying to conform to impossible standards! 

If you have any good tricks or tips please feel free to share! Everyone deserves to feel good and feel positively about themselves. You are by no means obligated to look or dress a certain way. And always try before you buy! Its horrible to get something cute and come home to wear it only to realize it makes you feel dysphoric. And be safe, it’s okay if you need to dress or present a certain way in order to protect yourself. But people’s opinion about how you should present is completely unimportant because the problem lies with them, not you.

If you would like help addressing a specific issue, feel free to send a message or an ask and we will try our best to help you find a solution that works for you. We hope this can help at least a few people to find something that can help them overcome a dysphoria!

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Thank you!

Thank you guys for over 7,000 followers and counting! You've stuck with us for two years now! Continue to be great. Continue to be activists. Continue to support and love each other. Continue to support and love yourself. Just a reminder that we accept any and all questions, submissions, and members. And please join our kik chat today! We have nearly 100 members currently in our chats. We are always open for more to participate in our safe space project making sure all of you, our friends, have somewhere to be accepted, talk, and ask questions freely without judgement. Thanks again to each and every one of you and keep an eye out for big things to come!

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Just a few images from the protest we attended in Denver for trans students. This began with a few students and a school project, but even one voice can make a difference even if you think people aren’t listening. There was a pro-trump rally just a block away at the same time, it was a great chance to make them hear us. We will not be erased. We (admins Jake and Jack) were approached during the rally by a few watchers, as we both pass very well. They wanted to know what the march was about. We then informed them that we are fighting Trump’s new bathroom bill. It became clear that the watchers could not tell we were trans as they began to say things like “but think of the little girls who will walk in and just see some dude pissing” and “I just think they should stay out because of the kids” we calmly reminded them that there are no urinals in the women’s bathrooms that they were referring to and it was amazing that these cis men had not even considered that. I do believe we changes some views on the subject and opened their eyes while taking the time to educate them.

This, to us, shows that you don’t need a million people to change minds. You just need to take the time to stand up and educate those who may simply misunderstand what we are fighting. It’s a big task but we can all chip in. Don’t underestimate your own power.

And for those of you that pass, use your privilege to create a passage for those who people may be less willing to listen to. Had we not passed, we believe that we would not have been approached and not have had the opportunity to educate those people.

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Kik admins wanted

We are currently looking into creating a transiam chat on kik for predominantly Spanish speaking people. We are searching for bilingual people who can admin and monitor this group. If you are interested please message us for details and please reblog.