what is the difference, in your mind, between bisexual and pansexual? How did you come to the conclusion that you were bisexual rather than pan? or any other sexuality for that matter?
I try to avoid defining sexuality for anyone other than myself, but typically for me it means being attracted to two or more genders, where pansexual means all identities. I consider myself bisexual, but flexible, opting to define myself as queer, because my preference is my business. There was no method or series of experiments that helped me “come to the conclusion” and it’s difficult to accurately describe the journey one goes through in discovering their sexuality. I’m attracted to all kinds of people, and my attraction isn’t based in something as rigid as standard gender and sexuality. It’s all fluid.