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[itzy-bella-23]

#3hourslate #tryingtofigureitout #influencer #giantsweater #tinyskirt #tuesdayvibes https://www.instagram.com/p/B8Ij4wojBQC/?igshid=1949j0w5e1oi0

[cosmicenbyollie]

Sometimes we are only just silenced by the muzzle of our own making. #voiceless #tomorrowisanewday #tryingtofigureitout #adultingsucks #whyamisoweird #digitalillustration #itsokaynottobeokay https://www.instagram.com/p/BnLIVBxnyCV/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1cyef0h8wp24r

[paperwhale42]

😂 too accurate #lifehasotherplans #cantitbesmoothforonce #tryingtofigureitout • • • #Repost @theawkwardyeti (@get_repost) ・・・

[neutroisconfusion-blog]

figuring out neutrois and neutrois vs. agender

While questioning I felt like I was dropped in a pool of concepts and Google helped a lot, but hearing from people and reading experiences were eventually what helped me figure myself out. (I might not have figured myself out yet though, but I feel settled nowadays.) So I wanted to talk about my understanding, hoping it will be of help. 

Keep in mind that labels are only words to help express ourselves. They are not standards to uphold or boxes to check :) The following is how I understand these labels and how I’ve seen them used, and nothing more.

This is how I get it: I’m neutrois. I understand the concept of gender. My gender is made up of 0% female and 0% male. 

So far, agenders I’ve met say they don’t get what gender is. They express a lack of gender.

I’ve read online that another difference is neutrois can experience dysphoria while agenders don’t. But I believe people’s experiences will vary. I personally don’t think I experience dysphoria.

Some websites say these two terms are also sometimes used interchangeably. So far I’ve only seen these labels used in the sense I’ve explained above.

Both neutrois and agenders can be of any sexual orientation, and how they express their gender identity vastly vary. They can also experience gender fluidity.

Questions and comments welcome. I’m a non-native speaker, so I also welcome corrections <3

[danniellechristine]

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[adamrazzo]

when your friend tells you she picked out the cutest outfit #kesha #keshafave #ummm #wtfface #whatareyouwearing #tryingtofigureitout

[justafitnessfreak-blog]

Am I the Only One?

Do you ever get those great ideas that make you want to accomplish so much, but then you overthink them and they sound ridiculous. So you end up spending a bunch of time on something you never plan on doing. Waste of time. Does this mean those of us who do nothing, actually have so much we can do? Why do we allow fear to control us?

[heavenlyriches]

HELP ME UNDERSTAND #helpmeoutfolks #helpmeouthere #tryingtofigureitout #followers #loops #whathehell