Emile does therapy Skype calls over quarantine and during one call with Larry and Dot, Larry jokingly congratulations him on still dressing like a professional because “it’s so hard to feel like that matters anymore”
And Picani, who knows full well he is wearing spongebob pajama pants, is just like “yep, totally, I see what you mean. I am So Brave.”
this is gonna be partly bullet fic mostly pure meta because i just,,, wanna talk asldkjsdlj
Humans
who fucking knows
incredibly variable from society to society but the one thing all the other species can agree on is that no one is more fucking intensely invested in gender than fucking humans
whether theyre discussing their own genders or the genders they think should be ‘allowed’/valid or how dumb other people are being about gender, no species invests more mental resources to discussing Gender As A Concept than humans
Elves
relatively fluid - living for hundred to sometimes over a thousand years will do that - but not extremely so
its normal for an elf to switch around gendered pronouns and default presentation a few times over the course of their life, often referred to as phases but not in the condescending way you hear people use it in our world
but doing it “too often” is a quick way to get a reputation for being finicky and indecisive
the twins mom, Dot, is about two hundred and gets a bit of side-eye from her family because she’s gone through five of these phases - she’s a woman right now, and has been two other times, as well as man once and she was nonbinary when she met Larry/when the twins were children. She’s been their mom, as opposed to their Bibi for about six years by the time of Tyndall Effect/Murphy’s Law
Hobbits
hobbits dont care about gender they care about the four f’s, Fun, Family, Friends and Food
the most fluid and the least judgemental they are just out here to have a good time
Virgil for example is agenderfluid and usually uses he/him pronouns with occasional they/them and she/her days (in that order) and this got less than no reaction from his hobbit family members
Dwarves
dwarves have very little sexual dimorphism and most dwarvish languages dont differentiate between genders for pronouns
the prototypical dwarvish reaction to other species discussing gender is “what the literal FUCK are you people talking about?”
Orcs
most invested in gender aside from humans but dont use the same binary
all orc children are considered to be the same gender and use “juvenile” pronouns - they arent considered to be fully gendered beings until theyre adults
teenagers decide their genders at a coming of age ceremony, at which point they start using either masc or fem pronouns, traditionally
Emile is an orc, got to that point, and was like “but what if i dont uuuh want to be??? a fully gendered being???”
so Emile is a demiguy - in his first language they use masc, ‘juvenile’, and neutral-adult (which are neo-pronouns to orcs) pronouns and in english he uses interchanging he/they
Archfey
the only thing all archfey genders have in common is that they are FancyTM
So yeah this is just some fun worldbuilding and im <3 <3 <3 <3 about it so have my Thoughts