“Hi! Saw your video on youtube (the Doesn't want a relationship - why won't he committ) and i have a quesiton. i've been with a guy who says he wants to be friends but his actions tell a different story. I recently invited him to spend xmas holiday (dinner) with me and he blurts out that he doesnt wanna go with me because I would pin him as my bf to my parents. That kinda pissed me off because he thinks i would do that to him. Anyway, he says we’re nothing but friends although i've done nothing but GF things for him. Here is my issue, i have feelings for him. I told him, and he says he doesnt understand why we can be just friends. Im sorry but i cant emotionally stand by and watch him give his love to someone else while i stay on the sideline waiting for him to be denied, then me be the backup comfort girl. I dont want him outta my life cause i very much like him and care for him. So here is the question. Do i cut him out completely and if i do, will he come back? Do i suck it up and just be a friend knowing i want more, and hope that he will realize one day that i'm here and hope he changes his mind? Thanks so much!” -D • #talktimewithnell #relationshipadvice #selfrespect #selfesteem #ttwn #naturallynellzy (at Brooklyn, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bsi-coxFbIT/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1bn9qm2miulf5