You. Perfect. Love Yourself.
“Selfish clown! A self-righteous narcissist! Selfish dick! Loving yourself has nothing to do with those previous namecallings. Loving yourself is prerequisite of loving others.
If you are ‘you’ with yourself and you like yourself the way you are, you also can love others as the way how they are. If you don’t love yourself, you most likely want to change them or own them. Your insecurity about yourself reflects on other relationships and easily ruins them.
Look at yourself and your life. Do you really want to be someone else? I would say very few wants. So, if you decided to be yourself, then why you wouldn’t love yourself? In the end you have to be with yourself for a very long time.
Today’s homework: Be gentle to yourself today. Don’t judge your thoughts, actions or desires. Look at yourself from the mirror and smile. See how your face brightens up when you smile. Pull your shoulders back and stand tall. Say: “This is what I am and it’s good!” Take a deep breath, laugh a little and forgive yourself everything. Let Love step in you today and always. Only that way you can extend it to others.
Cheers for lovely and beautiful!”
- Lifestyle entrepreneur, Tuomas Mikkonen