Can I request cuddling headcanons for the Saja Boys please?
(apologies in advance: it will likely be incredibly obvious that I have never cuddled with anyone or ever had a romantic partner TvT)
He’s not the biggest on cuddling- or rather, he doesn’t initiate it himself very often, especially in the beginning of the relationship. He doesn’t want to push boundaries, and accidentally make you uncomfortable. Not to mention, he doesn’t trust himself not to accidentally hurt you.
That being said, he prefers to be big spoon. The feeling of holding you to his chest, burying his face in your hair- it makes him feel calmer. Because he knows that you’re in his arms, and he’ll do everything in his power to keep you safe. Even if it’s from himself.
If you rest your head in his lap or on his shoulder, he’ll instinctively run his fingers through your hair like you’re a cat he’s petting. It’s a habit that’s formed from dealing with a massive fucking tiger over the centuries.
Doesn’t mind if he’s big spoon or little spoon- all that really matters is being close to you. If he’s being the big spoon, he holds you gently, yet with an unwavering embrace that tells you he won’t let go. If he’s being little spoon, he might take one of your hands to softly press his lips against, and just… hold it there. Like a silent promise that he wants you there.
If you bury your face in the crook of his neck, or rest your head on his shoulder, his hair smells like strawberries. 10/10 would recommend
If he wants attention while you’re busy, he’ll wrap his arms around your shoulders and nuzzle his face against your neck. If you don’t acknowledge him, he’ll press kisses against your neck and cheeks. If you still don’t acknowledge him, he’ll shift until he’s practically on top of you and press kisses all over your face and lips until you acknowledge him. And if you somehow still don’t acknowledge him? Suffer from the silent treatment.
Big on bear-hugs. As in, if you are being hugged by him from any angle, it’s a miracle that none of your bones break when he crushes you against him. HOWEVER, a plus to this is that he’s also great at back-cracking! So as long as you don’t mind the wind getting knocked out of you, consider yourself as having a personal masseuse.
I’m not sure there’s even a way Abby could ever be little spoon, considering the sheer size of this man. So, chances are that you’re gonna be stuck being little spoon for the rest of time. And if he falls asleep while spooning you? Yeahhh, goodluck getting out of his arms.
If you’re ignoring him, or too busy to give him attention, he might just pick you up and carry you over to the bed or couch, and hold you snuggled up against him until you either admit what’s wrong or relax.
Doesn’t really like being little spoon unless he’s upset. Usually, he’ll be big spoon, or just wrap his arms around you so that you’re both holding each other close. His hair is also quite soft, and if you run your fingers through it, he will literally fucking melt.
Sometimes when he’s feeling clingy, or just wants to be near you, he’ll curl up next to you on the couch and rest his head on your lap. But if he wants your attention as well, he might literally sit himself on your lap (or pull you onto his own lap), just so that you’re forced to look at him and give him attention.
If you’re upset, and he’s cuddling you for comfort, he might whisper soft affirmations of love and affection for you. Considering he’ not the most talkative, his words carry a lot of weight, and mean to world.
Every time he holds you, it’s like he has all the time in the world. There’s never any rush to go do other things and move on with the day, never any outside reason good enough for him to let you go. His hold is lazy, yet possessive, and unyielding.
If he’s spooning you, he’ll bury his face in your hair or against the crook of your neck, like you’re his escape from the outside world, his sanctuary. Unless you genuinely want out of his arms, he’s not letting go. You got shit to do? Too bad. He’s an idol, so he’s rich- you don’t need to go do anything.
He loves holding you close to him, your face nuzzled against his chest, arms and legs wrapped around each other, and treating your hair like his own personal nest to bury his face against. No space in between you, slow kisses pressed to your skin- just warmth and comfort and love for each other.
