Growing up, my mom single-handedly ran a tight ship with a clear set of rules and regulations that applied equally to her army of 3 daughters. 💣We used to complain about her military style of parenting and often compared our household with those of our peers, who often had what we thought was heaps more "freedom" than us. Even her approach to emotions was unconventional, with us getting pep-talks on our approach towards the challenges we faced instead of hugs and back-rubs. She would always say "Neneza, can you think of a realistic solution for this problem? If your answer is no, pray over it. Pray for the strength to adapt to the changes and to overcome the discomfort they may bring. But if your answer is yes, you better wipe those tears and prepare for battle, young lion!" 😱😂 Looking back, I realise that the comradary and team-work she advocated for taught us how to love and respect her without ever mistaking that comradary for a friendship with one of our peers. Looking back, preparing us for the real world took priority over us liking her. Looking back, was she a perfect parent? No. Could I have done with more hugs? Yes, hle bathong... 😂 But my heart is full of gratitude because her training and affirmations continue to be a point of reference in my low moments. I only hope to be half of the parent she is to my own children. #ToughLove ❤ #TheRealWorld #PussyPower #YoungLion #UnapologeticallyRoyal 👑 https://www.instagram.com/p/Bg8obnxgCMJ3icPJoTd5lQklWq3diySSoSTOXI0/?igshid=1acnjw0uzo5kg