When I was in college, my boyfriend was an English major convinced he was going to write the Great American Novel. He spent the entire relationship putting conversations he & I had in the book, absolutely verbatim, & then berating me when I called it out because "IT'S FICTION"...
— Hilary Thomas (they/them) (@airspaniel) July 8, 2021
The plot of his novel involved a guy his age who was in college & was WOEFULLY MISUNDERSTOOD by everyone, especially his cruel girlfriend. He was in love with the girl who lived in the dorms across the street, because she listened to him & respected him...
— Hilary Thomas (they/them) (@airspaniel) July 8, 2021
And EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I said "hey, I'm not comfortable with you putting my words out here like this" or "It really seems like you're writing from life here. Do you have a thing for [redacted]?" he would scream bloody murder at me because I didn't UNDERSTAND...
— Hilary Thomas (they/them) (@airspaniel) July 8, 2021
Anyway, he ended up trying to cheat on me with [redacted], who was a good friend of mine, so that didn't work out for him. And he successfully cheated on me with somebody at a party, & lied to my face about it for years, even through health scares where I needed to know...
— Hilary Thomas (they/them) (@airspaniel) July 8, 2021
So I guess all I'm saying is wow I'm a little bit triggered by all this cat person stuff, for reasons having not much to do with the stuff itself. 0_o
— Hilary Thomas (they/them) (@airspaniel) July 8, 2021