#uni friends

[cowboylikeyouu]

a friend from uni & i have like no shame whatsoever when it comes to the fact that we're really into fsnfiction and it's SO fun bc we've been explaining omegaverse lore to one of the cishet guys in our friendgroup for weeks now, every time we see him we give him some new facts to wrap his head around & it's the most hilarious shit ever.

[blxxeu]

too long

you know what? it’s been too long-

too long i haven’t had a cup of hot chocolate with you, discussing life, crying over our struggles, laughing at each other.

too long i haven’t watched a movie with you, cuddled up to each other under a warm blue blanket while you fall asleep on my shoulder, movie night that ends to a sleepover, having the greatest of rests i have ever had because you were right next to me.

too long i haven’t hugged you good night or kissed you good morning, suddenly seeing you walking at the street down my apartment, joining you for grocery shopping and chatting while we stroll around town.

too long without having dinner or lunch together, discovering new places to eat, exploring the world, making special memories that i will forever think about in the future.

it’s been too long and life has been too hard without you.

-to my uni friends that i can’t see everyday anymore.

[marigolddraw]

Hello!

I am back.

Freshman in uni and been busy.

Met lot of wonderful people and made amazing friends.

I made a cat drawings of my friends and our little shenanigans we go through.

We are wholesome cats with different personalities.

[alwaysthesleepingwillow]

My Uni Friends in Hogwarts: Meg

So, my uni friend Meg is a Slytherin and she is the most unslytherin person I have ever EVER met. And Meg is addicted to custard creams. So, I had a vision and I’m going to share that vision.

Please picture a sweet little red haired seventh sitting in the Slytherin Common Room waiting for the Slytherin first years to come back from the welcome feast. And when they enter she stands up, levitating a plate filled with custard creams. The first years are confused but the prefects are used to it.

“Welcome to Slytherin House!” She says cheerfully. “Have a custard cream,”

The first years are even more confused while the seventh years near by just say, “Oh, I love Meg,”

[sachlockk]

God Damnit @embers-arts stop making the same sonas as me I swear to fuck

,,,,,,,dynyamic duo

[optomstudies]

i have a few friends and we study the same major. we are classmates in almost all of my classes, and they seem to be the chill kind of people.i dont have any other problem with them, they're actually ok it's just that when im with them i hesitate to study hard bc of how chill they are. i dont wanna detach myself from them but i guess i have to take action bc their being so chill is affecting me??

I think you said it best yourself, that you “have to take action”. 

Although your question is well meaning, some hard lessons you’ll have to learn: you have to remember that no one else is responsible for your education but yourself. In life as well, you shouldn’t just try and mirror everyone you meet just to fit in with them or for them to like you. It doesn’t matter if your ‘friends’ are chill or if they just party all night, or if they just get high all day. At the end of the day, if you don’t study hard because you didn’t want to disrupt their “being chill” vibes or so that they don’t stop hanging out with you, then when you get a bad mark or fail, they’re not going to be like “oh hey man, sorry you have to repeat because we were being too chill”. 

If you try and pin the blame on them, then they’re going to be even angrier, because how is it their fault that you didn’t study for your own test?

Of course, I get that not everyone can stand being alone and some people have this weirdly insatiable need to fit in with others, so you can choose what option you want from the two below. 

1. Continue hanging out with them, but you need to make some study time at home. 

Firstly, if they’re your real friends, if you want to study to pass your test, they shouldn’t leave you. 

If you’re hanging out with them even outside of uni days (like after classes for lunch or dinner is fine), then you need to reduce that time so that you have enough time to study at home by yourself. You don’t need your chill friends to study, you can’t always study with someone (and it doesn’t sound like you have a study buddy by the looks of things). Study intensively because they’re already siphoning away the time you have in the first place. 

2. Just literally say that you need to study. 

Just to reiterate, if they’re your real friends, if you want to study to pass your test, they shouldn’t leave you.

There might be one or two in the group that are like you - they want to study, but the fact that everyone else isn’t and is literally heading for failure makes them not take any action. If you want to study, then just suggest something even if it’s simple like “hey i’m going to go study for the test next week, does anyone want to come to the library?” and stick to your guns even if no one wants to study. 

Hope that helps! I’m sure you already know the right answer seeing how you’ve written the question. 

[taneleer-tivan]

A couple of photos from a beautifully magical night last year when our college had a Harry Potter formal

[not-so-perfect-porcelain]

I’m so glad I have my small group of uni friends that always brighten my day, even if I don’t feel like it. My hometown friends who always have my back. My online friends who have been with me since the cringe days. My new witchy friends, who I’ve connected with so quickly. All of you. I love you, take good care of yourselves since I can’t do it for you all the way over here in my lil dorm. Stay safe, stay warm, know you are loved. Xoxo