#urgentish

[coolcatcaptain]

do you guys prefer oikuro or kuroyachi?

[djangopiano]

Closed. Go to Even More Urgent Care. #urgentcare #urgentish #ironicsigns #oxymoron #carlkissin #kissinimprov #stayhealthy #dontgetsick #daytimehours https://www.instagram.com/carlkissin/p/BxDxqBIBGxH/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=zcy26iydyoll

[anything-advice-blog]

*urgentish* hi it's the same girl who has the boyfriend issues about whether or not to break up. just wanted to say that we had another argument and now I really don't know what to do because it's making me upset that I'm pretending to be in this relationship but at the same time he's suddenly got so possessive and angry and I know it would hurt him to break up in the middle of exams and now I don't know what to do, if you could answer asap that would be amazing

Hi love,

Risking the chance of hurting his feelings by breaking up is much better than staying in a relationship that is not healthy for you. Breakups are never easy, and never unemotional. You both have feelings, and maybe one of you will take the breakup harder than the other. That’s okay. It still needs to be done. It’s not fair to either of you to stay in this relationship any longer. You shouldn’t be putting up with someone who has anger problems and is extremely possessive of you unnecessarily, but he also does not deserve to be with someone who is basically pretending to be in this relationship.

Ultimately it will benefit the both of you and eventually you will realize that. Maybe not today, not tomorrow, or even next week, but eventually you will. It’s always hardest right after, but it gets better and then you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner. It’s time to breakup and move on.

Good luck, Ali.

[anything-advice-blog]

URGENTISH I just almost ran over a pedestrian while driving and I'm freaking out right now and my hands are shaking and I didn't hurt him but I was so close! I am so scared I never want to drive again

Hey there darling,

Breathe in through your nose 1…2…3…4…5…6…7…out through your mouth 1…2…3…4…5…6…7…8….in 1…2…3…4…5…6…7…out 1…2…3…4…5…6…7…8…repeat until you feel calmer.

Babe, it’s going to be okay. Nearly every person who drives, young or old, almost hits someone. It’s going to happen. It’s scary, yes, but the important thing is that you didn’t hurt anyone.

I understand that you may want to take a break from driving, but don’t stop driving forever. You’ll lose your independence to go places by and all the hard work you went through to get your license will be wasted. It was a mistake, and mistakes are okay to make. Don’t stop driving because of one mistake.

I’m here if you need anything,

Michaela xo

[lili-is-utterly-strange]

I am not gonna be anywhere with signal or anything until like Sunday night guys so yeah basically I'm not gonna be on... :( BYE EVERYBODY