Gender and sex andanythingthatrelatestoit are a thing I actually puzzle a lot about (ugh forgive my autistic curiosity), but I never really like to discuss it because of its hyper-awareness and I was afraid to hurt people by having a completely different opinion
oh and before was the thing that I had some people following me I dont know at all and we all know the potential danger of tumblr's usual overreaction to those things
I'm fine with my body, like I don't want a dick nor do I really want to be seen as guy. I don't /really/ care if people see me as one. (...apparently, my slight mustache is enough for some people to oversee my Double-Ds and think I'm a guy anyway, so I may facepalm. It's like..."...Ok")
Actually I really don't give a damn about gender. Like, the only thing that undeniably exists is your sex/reproduction organs/differences on the outer. (...like...reproduction is a bit important to life I THINK...) And errr...physical gender isn't a bad thing unless you aren't feeling okay about your body in some way.
So, what I see different than the majority (and the part about which I am asdfghhk to talk about because ohey it's an opinion andanunpopulartoo) is /mental gender/.
why does your mentality have a gender all of a sudden? Does it have a penis or a vagina
Isn't that just a byproduct by our dear thing called 'society' (read: the bane of everything), based on whatever the fuck Homo Erectus, Neanderthalers and Cromagnons did a wooping 20.000+ years ago. You know, the whole guy goes hunting, female goes cooking stuff that is still emphasized and forced onto others by media and redundant traditions.
There's...kinda enough differences physically between male and female, so I don't really understand why we have to make a difference in mentalities too, especially since THAT actually doesn't exist.
I don't like pleasing society. I fuuuucking hate it in every aspect, no matter whether it's my way of living or even stupid things like 'trends'.
It's impossible to please it anyway. They'll always have something they hate about you, no matter what you change or 'fix', as example your weight or even just your hair-style. And there'll be hardly a case (...unless you do it for your health? Like, if you do it truly for yourself and not for how others perceive you) in which changing something will 'fix' the actual 'problem'.
The problem aren't you. The problem is how they see you.
Society's ignorance is the problem. That's what I think.
I'm a hipster rebel when it comes to changing myself to fit in. No matter whether it's how I do stuff, my clothes, whether I am fat or not, my religion, my opinions, my mental condition or in this case gender-stereotyping. (I could go on a 3 day-rant about society and how it is becoming more and more of a threat than...well, a thing of unity)
I don't. Like. Being forced to change myself. To please 'no-faces'. Sorry faceless mass, I YOLO straight through this.
I've always hated dresses and I've always liked 'boy'-things more than 'girl'-things (surprise as if I'm the only one). My veeeeeeeeeery conservative mother has been constantly (and she is until today, I hear it thrice every day PFFFF) disgusted at my 'male mentality'.
And I have been disgusted at her perception of mentality ever since I can think.
Like, to me this "shit" just doesn't exist. IMO. You don't have a male or female mentality. That's close-minded and based on redundant, society-set standards.
How the fuck is it different from saying "you have a black/white mentality." Or, whatever even, you have a "handicapped/not handicapped mentality"?
There's just you. Individual mentalities. You as person. Your mentality is "you". Your 'mental gender' is you. You, as in your personality. The person you are.
I either love you or hate you as person, based on whether you're the sweetest and chillest bro around or whether you are a bag of shit that deserves being shot to and incarnated on the sun.
Not because you're physically a guy or a girl or view yourself as guy or chick or 3rd gender or because of any other ethnic 'group' things, be it mental disorders, your skin-color, your culture, name it all.
I don't give pronouns much importance, because I view the whole mental-gender thing differently, still I am super-anxious about even referring to people I don't know as something because of the backlash it might create lately.
Iiiiiiiiii feel uneasy about writing it, partly because I know some communities enforce the things I am seeing differently and partly because I don't want anyone to take this as "hey stop being the way you are, right now".
Noooow my opinion is probably highly offensive to some and understandable to others and then there's those people who are like "this makes no sense???"
That's cool, it's just my opinion I'M ONLY VENTING cuz I had to get it out and you don't have to agree, asasdfghhjk.
