May 17
In this house, femboys and tomboys are slurs and derogatory language.
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In this house, femboys and tomboys are slurs and derogatory language.
We're literally barely 10 people and the misinformation is already spreading. From our own, no less.
Literally recieving harassment as a masculine trans woman using a label that includes her and suddenly I'm the problem.
Putting this out there to ya'll so you aren't suprised:
I don't like it when you equate hetgnc to rolereversal or use it in the same tags. They are very much different things. Pegging and all the other social actions roles can be preformed at any time. Our presentation and identity is what causes our oppression.
It really irks me when you guys post/ask about the two as if it's synonymous. We have bigger fish to fry.
Repost to nominate HetGNC as a seperate sexuality than 'straight'
Reminder that anyone can have bottom dysphoria. A woman with a penis can be a trans or cis, or intersex, but still a woman. A man with a vagina can still be trans, cis or intersex. Shout out to altersexism! Genitals have no inherit gender.
Utena is one of my favorite sapphic figures of all time. The absolute bible for women who are masc regardless.
I'm kind of glad you said something because alot of the rolereversal crowd on here (AND YES I MEAN TUMBLR ESPECIALLY) has a problem with misogyny projected on feminine men. This is why I left the community, because I don't think anyone actually has read what anibelle had said extensively about not using this as an outlet for your misogynistic biases.
We're all fucking adults here, and it pisses me off that we're not more organized and aware. Since we're small, it's hard to speak up without alienating yourself from the only people you know understand.
FYI I never called out anyone in particular, I was speaking my mind on patterns I saw browsing the tag. It really doesn't help that rhe reddit has some transphobic/homophobic/lesbophobic sentiment just floating around.
It's fucked up that our trans members of this community have said they don't feel comfortable speaking here because of said transphobia. It's really fucked up that members of our own community perpetuate subtle jabs at masc lesbians despite sharing a large axis of their oppression.
Just because you're Genderqueer, it doesn't give you authority to talk over the experiences of groups you don't belong to. Some of you are STILL cis. Some of you are STILL straight. Some of you are STILL white. It is your responsibility to check your biases and educate yourself.
its really sad that you can't convince people to actually care about gnc people and their struggles, not even ourselves to actually learn from other queer groups.
It's so tiring for people to just call someone a "femboy" "tomboy" or some other shitty fucking term or just genuinely subscribe to misogynistic incel fetishization.
Some of you guys are the most porn addicted, slimy, disgusting creatures I've layed eyes upon and you deserve eternal damnation for destroying the world for young genderqueer people inhabit.
Masculine Women and Feminine Men are QUEER. Their suffering matters. Their internal experiences matter. Their queerness needs to not depend on their sexuality.
End Gynarchophobia and End Cuphobia or ROT.