#virginity is a construct

[girlzoot]

“You’re a virgin then?” I hated that word. It always filled me with shame. Everyone always made it seem like it was the worst crime anyone could commit. But I nodded anyway, unwilling to lie about it. —Blake R. Wolfe/Beastkin

[guarddogbutch]

ik you're big into viginity & loss thereof but how do you feel about someone who is'nt a virgin who has just had awful sex.... (forced service top who can make people feel good but no one has ever tried to pleasure ME like come on now)

listen idc if you're a virgin or you're ran thru or you've had the worst sex ever always. I'm so good at pretending. it's all pretend and none of it means anything anyway. but being the first to do anything [even if it's just fucking you good] is fun for me. come over?

[heyimdove]

i think it’s really funny that men got together and agreed that they, as a whole, are so vile that the mere touch of one of their disgusting penises could ruin a woman forever

[staceymcgillicuddy]

I think Chrissy is a virgin btw

This ask made me smile! I think she definitely could be, and that's the fun of Chrissy when we meet her - we know so little about her, she could be any number of things. Maybe she's a total virgin, or someone who fools around with Jason (ahem, oral, hand stuff) but hasn't had P-in-V intercourse, or someone who does butt stuff because it doesn't "count" (and oh my gosh let me tell you about how many religious kids I grew up with who did anal first because I guess Jesus doesn't care if you what what in the butt? IDK man, still cracks me up), or maybe they've done it a lot and she likes it. That's the awesome thing about a character who gave us so much in such little time--she's easy to headcanon any number of ways, and none of us are necessarily incorrect.

(Personally, I'm a sucker for a good deflowering, and I may write one one day, just 'cause, so I don't disagree with you, Nonnie.)

[leiaorganicsolocup]

so last night i went to a christmas party and we played buzzed (amazing) and got into some questions about virginity and whatnot

my coworker looked and me and said so only i could hear that she was inexperienced. i asked her if she was uncomfortable before letting her know that i, too, am inexperienced

the wholesome part is we kept checking on each other throughout the night to see if the convo was getting too much and honestly the sweetest thing to happen to me in awhile

shoutout to my one coworker whom i’ve spent less than 10 hours with ever for being more receptive and caring than my entire friend group last year 💕💕

[anticute-marshmallowmars]

wow

kdramas in 2020 really are giving me male virgins.

this is great.

[boulderfindings]

Bangladesh drops 'virgin' word from marriage form

The category on marriage registration forms will be replaced with a word meaning "unmarried".

[femestella]