Sep 9, 2025
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free things you can do at home to start feeling more girly
people say that beauty costs money. there is some truth to that, but the most important changes we make to feel more girly all start for free. it is a mindset that is cultivated - not purchased. π
fashion & beauty
home manicure β trim & file nails, paint colour
dress nicely even when youβre sitting at home β you donβt feel girly when you feel like a slob.
experiment with make up β try out new tutorials when you have no where to go
play in your wardrobe β experiment by mix & matching your clothing & accessories to find new outfits
study to become inspired β study fashion, movies, art, history and whatever else you want online to find new inspirations and role models for you to incorporate into your style
lifestyle
start exercising β we all hate this advice but it truly makes the biggest difference to your mood, body and feeling girly. do free pilates or yoga videos from youtube. you donβt even need shoes, or a mat if you donβt have one.
take a beauty bath (ideally with bubbles and music playing) β if you donβt have a tub, then a beauty shower where you take your time and listen to music is also really effective.
drink more water β every cell in your body requires adequate hydration to function so donβt starve yourself of precious water!! this is a requirement for glowing skin.
dancing β put on music, dance in your bedroom. moving your body frees up restraints that you subconsciously put on yourself and can help you feel more girly.
reading β ditch the scrolling and just start reading. read what? whatever you want, it all counts. you donβt need to buy anything new - read books you already have, articles on substack, or borrow e-books to your phone from a public library. spending time reading calms your brain down and lets you readjust.
environment
clean your house β there is a difference between a βgirl messβ of some clothes on the floor and actually dirty. youβre never going to feel cute and girly with a sink full of dishes and crumbs in your sheets.
redecorate your digital spaces β maybe itβs not possible to decorate your outer environment right now, but redecorating your digital spaces, like your phone and computer, is free and can give you fresh girly inspiration.
swap out your media β consider what makes you feel girly and thoughtfully curate the types of content and media that you are putting into your mind. surrounding yourself with girly energy will make you feel more girly.
change your music -> music affects your mood so intentionally choose music that supports the way you want to feel. create playlists to be the soundtrack to the movie of your girly life. donβt put on sad heartbroken music and expect to feel like a queen!
mindset
appreciate yourself in the mirror β most people have a negative self image and you can begin to repair your own by paying yourself compliments. it feels cringe at first but the more you do it, the more beautiful you begin to feel.
journal β how do you become your own dream girl if you donβt even know who she is? write about her, discover who it is that you actually want to be.
if you want to become a more girly, cute, feminine version of yourself then there is no one stopping you other than you. while having a huge budget can buy us a new wardrobe and lots of lovely things, the most important changes we make to feel more girly all start for free. your new dream girl life is bought with your mindset, not your wallet. just aim to make small changes one by one and work towards becoming your dream girl over time.
in the words of Dita Von Teese: βbeauty, glamour, even luxury need not be determined by oneβs bank accountβ. β₯
cheers to us all becoming dream girls π
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my favorite tumblr posts
Cultivating Your Signature It Girl Aesthetic | THE IT GIRL DIARIES
how to be a winnerβ.ΰ³ΰΏ*:ο½₯πͺ½π
ultimate IT girl guide
how to live your life like the BRATZ β‘
youtube videos to help you with your glow up (pt. 2)
The IT Girl Wardrobe Essentials | IT GIRL DIARIES
beauty and brainsβ.ΰ³ΰΏ*:ο½₯πβοΈ
The Prissy Girl Look
pretty girl handbookβ.ΰ³ΰΏ*:ο½₯π§
cultivating a high maintenance lifestyleβ.ΰ³ΰΏ*:ο½₯ππ©
inner glow up. α₯«α‘
getting it togetherβ.ΰ³ΰΏ*:ο½₯ποΈ
micro glow up part twoβ.ΰ³ΰΏ*:ο½₯π§
little things that make life more bearable ΛΒ°ββ.ΰ³ΰΏ*:ο½₯
How I Manifest
When I begin to check the 3D, spiral, or just get tired of waiting for it to materialize (which you donβt have to wait in the 4D, sometimes it just takes a minute for the 3D to catch up.) l lock in by not allowing myself to check the outer world for my desire.
Say I want someone to follow me on ig for example. Iβve been affirming, affirming, check for it, affirming, affirming, check for it, spiralβ you get the point. Iβll avoid checking my notifications, or ignore whatever is giving me the ability to check (itβs different from circumstance to circumstance.)
I love subliminals, rampages, and vision boards (aka pinterest boards) so Iβll usually listen to subs overnight, rampages during the day, and spend about 10 minutes affirming for my desire while looking at my vision board. I especially like looking at my vision board and saying βThatβs my picture. Thatβs literally mine.β I wake up affirming, fall asleep affirming, affirm in the shower, affirm while cleaning, etc. I include self concept affirmations as well.
Returning to my previous example, Iβll affirm things like: βSP followed me back, theyβre so obsessed. Iβm such a powerful manifester. Iβm literally God, thatβs why I manifest instantly.β
Once my desire manifests, I say things to reinforce my power. βThat was so easy to manifest. I manifested that effortlessly. I always manifest what I want this fast.β