Sep 9, 2025
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free things you can do at home to start feeling more girly
people say that beauty costs money. there is some truth to that, but the most important changes we make to feel more girly all start for free. it is a mindset that is cultivated - not purchased. 🎀
fashion & beauty
home manicure → trim & file nails, paint colour
dress nicely even when you’re sitting at home → you don’t feel girly when you feel like a slob.
experiment with make up → try out new tutorials when you have no where to go
play in your wardrobe → experiment by mix & matching your clothing & accessories to find new outfits
study to become inspired → study fashion, movies, art, history and whatever else you want online to find new inspirations and role models for you to incorporate into your style
lifestyle
start exercising → we all hate this advice but it truly makes the biggest difference to your mood, body and feeling girly. do free pilates or yoga videos from youtube. you don’t even need shoes, or a mat if you don’t have one.
take a beauty bath (ideally with bubbles and music playing) → if you don’t have a tub, then a beauty shower where you take your time and listen to music is also really effective.
drink more water → every cell in your body requires adequate hydration to function so don’t starve yourself of precious water!! this is a requirement for glowing skin.
dancing → put on music, dance in your bedroom. moving your body frees up restraints that you subconsciously put on yourself and can help you feel more girly.
reading → ditch the scrolling and just start reading. read what? whatever you want, it all counts. you don’t need to buy anything new - read books you already have, articles on substack, or borrow e-books to your phone from a public library. spending time reading calms your brain down and lets you readjust.
environment
clean your house → there is a difference between a ‘girl mess’ of some clothes on the floor and actually dirty. you’re never going to feel cute and girly with a sink full of dishes and crumbs in your sheets.
redecorate your digital spaces → maybe it’s not possible to decorate your outer environment right now, but redecorating your digital spaces, like your phone and computer, is free and can give you fresh girly inspiration.
swap out your media → consider what makes you feel girly and thoughtfully curate the types of content and media that you are putting into your mind. surrounding yourself with girly energy will make you feel more girly.
change your music -> music affects your mood so intentionally choose music that supports the way you want to feel. create playlists to be the soundtrack to the movie of your girly life. don’t put on sad heartbroken music and expect to feel like a queen!
mindset
appreciate yourself in the mirror → most people have a negative self image and you can begin to repair your own by paying yourself compliments. it feels cringe at first but the more you do it, the more beautiful you begin to feel.
journal → how do you become your own dream girl if you don’t even know who she is? write about her, discover who it is that you actually want to be.
if you want to become a more girly, cute, feminine version of yourself then there is no one stopping you other than you. while having a huge budget can buy us a new wardrobe and lots of lovely things, the most important changes we make to feel more girly all start for free. your new dream girl life is bought with your mindset, not your wallet. just aim to make small changes one by one and work towards becoming your dream girl over time.
in the words of Dita Von Teese: “beauty, glamour, even luxury need not be determined by one’s bank account”. ♥
cheers to us all becoming dream girls 🎀
𝐌𝐲 2026 𝐕𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐁𝐨𝐚𝐫𝐝 :
𝒄𝒐𝒛𝒚 𝒘𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔, 𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒆𝒇𝒖𝒍𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔, 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒍𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒍𝒆𝒔, 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒎𝒆𝒍𝒍 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒚 𝒃𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒔, 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒄, 𝒎𝒚 𝒓𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝒎𝒐𝒐𝒅, 𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒏𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒈𝒍𝒂𝒔𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒏𝒆, 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝒐𝒇 𝒂 𝒄𝒂𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂 𝒉𝒐𝒕 𝒄𝒖𝒑 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒆𝒂 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒍𝒅, 𝒘𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒚 𝒅𝒂𝒚𝒔 𝒂𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒅 ... 𝑰 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒏... 𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒂𝒔𝒌 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉.. 𝑫𝒐 𝑰?
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my favorite tumblr posts
Cultivating Your Signature It Girl Aesthetic | THE IT GIRL DIARIES
how to be a winner⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🪽🎀
ultimate IT girl guide
how to live your life like the BRATZ ♡
youtube videos to help you with your glow up (pt. 2)
The IT Girl Wardrobe Essentials | IT GIRL DIARIES
beauty and brains⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🎀☕️
The Prissy Girl Look
pretty girl handbook⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁
cultivating a high maintenance lifestyle⋆.ೃ࿔*:･👛🐩
inner glow up. ᥫ᭡
getting it together⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🗒️
micro glow up part two⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁
little things that make life more bearable ˚°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･
How I Manifest
When I begin to check the 3D, spiral, or just get tired of waiting for it to materialize (which you don’t have to wait in the 4D, sometimes it just takes a minute for the 3D to catch up.) l lock in by not allowing myself to check the outer world for my desire.
Say I want someone to follow me on ig for example. I’ve been affirming, affirming, check for it, affirming, affirming, check for it, spiral— you get the point. I’ll avoid checking my notifications, or ignore whatever is giving me the ability to check (it’s different from circumstance to circumstance.)
I love subliminals, rampages, and vision boards (aka pinterest boards) so I’ll usually listen to subs overnight, rampages during the day, and spend about 10 minutes affirming for my desire while looking at my vision board. I especially like looking at my vision board and saying “That’s my picture. That’s literally mine.” I wake up affirming, fall asleep affirming, affirm in the shower, affirm while cleaning, etc. I include self concept affirmations as well.
Returning to my previous example, I’ll affirm things like: “SP followed me back, they’re so obsessed. I’m such a powerful manifester. I’m literally God, that’s why I manifest instantly.”
Once my desire manifests, I say things to reinforce my power. “That was so easy to manifest. I manifested that effortlessly. I always manifest what I want this fast.”