#vnc confessions

[vanitasnocarteconfessions]

"I hope we get more riche content, shes gotten quite a bit neglected especially compared to the dhams, and shes much too cute for that. on that note, i also really like the dhams' dynamics together, read them as poly or found family, they have a tight bond and seeing them brings an instant smile to my face"

[the-better-vnc-confessions]

[retracexcviii]

Hello, why are you tired? (sorry if it's sudden, I always see you on the VnC confession page and it made me curious)

Oh yeah, dont worry for the question, it is okay.

I follow the confessions' blog since years ago because it was one of the fews that post very often and I liked it very much. But with time people have started to use it more to make things that I dont like. Using it to ask the community why like this and not that, to blame people that ship X and not Y, to complain about a previously confession (instead of commenting on that same), to complain about complaints (wtf).

At the beggining I answered this confessions because man: okay, I understand, you have your opinion but you cant pretend others to not have their own even if you are not in agreement. I can understand the complaint and I can understand that there are things that are wrong but most of this confessions put everyone in the same bag and it is nothing like that.

And, in the end, I am tired of answering. To say again, and again, and again, and again the same. That not all share your point of view and not all share the point of view you are complaining about. Because I am aware that these confessions normally are answering to a person/confession in particular but, in the name of Peter the Panda, please answer that confession, not make another post for that. With this actitude we are creating a snowball that is very unpleasant for a community so small as we are.

Sorry for expatiate that much for the answer but this doesnt have a simple explanation.

I am active in this community almost daily because I really like manga and I come from the small community of Pandora Hearts that was and still being very friendly so you probably will see me and my "I am tired, part X" in the future XD

And if you wonder what in the latest confession (#776) makes me feel tired it was trying to find the point of the confession, like: are you complaining about people that say VaniJeanne is toxic? or are complaining about people that ship them with others because the nature of the VaniJeanne? Because if it is the first thing wtf? in the last line you say yourself that the relationship is not pure nor healty so, why complain about something you are aware of? And if it is the second okay, I could be upset too of people using always the toxic flag to say their ship is better, but if you have your reason to ship VaniJeanne then others can have their own to ship them with others/not shipping VaniJeanne. This person ship VaniJeanne, this is okay. This person is aware that VaniJeanne is not a healty relationship, this is okay. And this person like the unhealty relationship Vanitas and Jeanne have, this is okay too. But if you know that VaniJeanne is not a pure nor healthy relationship why complain about others dont liking the same thing you are aware of. Thinking that relationships healthy and pure are boring is okay, I see the point. But other people can preffer other ships because they believe VaniJeanne is not pure and healthy too. Which ship is objectively better? Neither of course, because we can't be so objective about something we like. It does not end anywhere trying to convince others that X is better than Y, what does end somewhere is discussing X and Y, sharing our points so that others realize things that they have not seen until then.

If you have come this far, thank you for your attention.

[vanitasnocarteconfessions]

Noé was my bi awakening

I thought I was straight until I started vnc and saw Noé. He's so handsome when he smiles, I would legit be his boyfriend 

[vanitasnocarteconfessions]

“Domi and Jeanne should go on a mission alone together for my personal fun. Have the boys be the B plot for once. They respectively deserve screentime and a break!”

[vanitasnocarteconfessions]

““vanitas needs therapy” vanitas lived and died in the 19th century he would have just gotten diagnosed with female hysteria.”

[vanitasnocarteconfessions]

“I think whatever Vanitas has going on is way worse than Vincent Nightray. I think Vincent would be a little frightened of him even”

[vanitasnocarteconfessions]

“Given how Astolfo and Roland relationship deteriorated over time, I'd really love to see whether Astolfo and Olivier get on well with each other in a everyday context (so far we have always seen them in rather traumatic moments, when Astolfo isn't exactly in control of his actions).”