♥ What's the WORST thing that has happened to you rp wise?
kisses ur head like a little plushie ♥ -- @vohunara
In 2023, and by extension, 2024, people are still doing the ship-and-dash, aka lovebombing people and latching onto them, developing a deep emotional connection in order to ship, and then dropping them like hot potatoes with zero remorse once the person can no longer provide serotonin shots and scenarios of two fictional characters kissing and fucking. The second the ship stops, the stream of affections stops too. It sucks.
I had this happen somewhat recently to me too, and in turn I have detached myself from the emotional connection I developed once I spotted the first signs of having outlived my usefulness. I have absolutely fucking nuked the shit out of anything even remotely related to this ordeal, and walked away. Others cannot, unfortunately, do the same on command.
If it happens to you, remember this: they have the right to end what you two have at any moment with little to no explanation, but you have the right to feel hurt about it. You have the right to vent about being essentially used to your friends, who will most likely want to know what happened to provide you with comfort and reassurance. You have the right to feel plenty of emotions about it.
And, if they come back to ''clear up a misurestanding'', to ''fix what was clearly a miscommunication'' or other phrases like that, or essentially giving you a non-pology, you have the right to not reply, or to directly block them. Hell, you can even block them after they give you a proper, heartfelt apology aknowledging their mistakes, or if they don't give you closure at all.
