I originally wrote this in response to a post I saw, but didn't want the OP/person I reblogged it from to think it was a criticism of them specifically, because it isn't. This is general advice for men in the circles I inhabit. I know that the political gender divide is a real thing and the large majority of far right (and even regular conservative) types are men, and they're frustrated that they can't get girlfriends because their views scare the hoes.
I'm going to tell you right now that A. women who share your views (or at least wouldn't be scared off by them) DO exist, and B. the reason you can't get them is not because of your views.
I am pretty far-right. I'm female. I'm not terribly ugly, if I say so myself. You are free to take or leave my advice, but since I care about encouraging white families and also would like to see the movement shed its school-shooter vibes, I am going to share the female perspective here and maybe it will help you troubleshoot your own situation as relevant.
What it basically all comes down to is this: if you want a tradwife you gotta be capable of being a tradhusband.
1. First, you have to be willing to put yourself out there. This is literally step one to getting a girlfriend. All other issues happen after this. I see so many of the incel types complaining about how the deck is stacked against them and they're helpless to change anything (that attitude, btw, is more unattractive than anything about your looks) but if you ask them when the last time they actually tried to ask a girl out, or even just tried to make friends with one, they haven't.
You may be a perfectly great guy with none of the issues I will describe next but if you see yourself as a beta loser and let that keep you from actually talking to girls, there's no hope for you whatsoever. The good news is that this is entirely in your control. If this is intimidating, or your advances have been coming off as creepy, start smaller by just having a normal conversation with a girl without trying to hit on her.
2. For the love of God, stop listening to those fuckboys like Andrew Tate, the only ones who find that attractive are themselves and it's gay as fuck. Any woman who is attracted to you for being an obnoxious self-obsessed degenerate is not going to be a good partner in the long run, either. Most girls do NOT find that shit attractive and if you find one who does, run away. If you're going to listen to any of those "influencers" (thin ice, that shit is fucking gay), listen to the ones who are telling you to clean your room, wash your smelly balls, and go outside.
3. Understand that there is a big difference between a lifestyle that falls along traditional gender roles but where the couple are true partners in life with mutual respect and the idea some of these guys have where they just want a live-in maid and sex doll. This is where most of you go off the rails. Plenty of women would love to be stay-at-home-mothers but that doesn't mean they want to play mommy to a manchild.
A lot of women are increasingly interested in a lifestyle where they take a traditional feminine role. But here's what the men often don't understand: the reason these women are attracted to traditional gender roles is NOT because they have terrible self-esteem and consider themselves sexual objects. It's because part of that agreement is that your partner will be a strong masculine provider. And that doesn't mean you have to look like a buff, bearded chad, I promise you plenty of girls like skinny dudes, chubby dudes, etc. Look at some of the fictional characters women love, a lot of times it's not Superman, it's bizarre gremlin-looking monster guys, there's hope for all of you. No, what being masculine means is that you have to be responsible, capable, and stable. You have to be someone worthy of her putting that trust in you. At the end of the day, you are creating a partnership of two people who contribute equally to their shared life even if their roles are different. If you want a wife who will perform this role for you, you are agreeing to perform your role for her, do not ever forget that. This is 2025, there is no legal or social requirement that a woman take the domestic feminine role for a man, if one does, it is because she is choosing to do this and that is a great honor that you need to be worthy of in turn.
Too many guys don't actually want to be that, what they want is a petite mail-order Asian whore to rape and be waited on by because they don't actually have respect for women, femininity, or traditional values. Same thing with why all these grown-ass coomers love jacking off to "barely legal" porn and only hitting on people under the age of 20, they're not looking for a partner, they're looking for someone naive or powerless enough for them to take advantage of while providing nothing in return. Don't be that guy. No woman wants that guy (and if they do they're a bundle of crazy you should get the hell away from immediately).
I'm not turned off by a man ranting about the Great Replacement, I'm turned off by a man who does nothing but play video games all day and doesn't take care of himself, let alone our future family. If you don't have a job, if you have no skills, if you blame everything on society or genetics like some bitch-ass liberal, I don't care how much Evola you can quote on Stormfront. I'll listen to you rant and I'll probably agree with you, but if you want me in the kitchen cooking you dinner, you better be able to fix the fence in the yard. You want a stay at home wife to raise your children, you better have a plan to make that financially possible.
Here is your game plan: stop seeing yourself as a helpless victim of society/genetics, throw out your crusty cumsocks, comb your hair, get a job and/or practical skills, move out of your parents' house, and appreciate that women are people. The white race will not be saved by your Adidas-balaclava-Armalite aesthetics blog, your chud memes, or how many racial slurs you can sling in the CoD lobby. The white race will be saved by you being worthy of your race, finding a woman who's also worthy, and making white babies in strong white families. If you're proud of your race, prove it.
