we took a queer survey a bit ago and it didn't have our gender on there
but in a "my explanation isn't enough" kind of way. or maybe we just don't fit into the general spaces but it was just like, i wish there was just a "trans" option. and i didn't have to think "is this masculine or neutral" or am i willing to be called nonbinary or etc etc because im not any of these things
and like i don't know why. at some point we just stopped leaning towards anything. every once in a while things make us euphoric but at the end of the day we are just trans and it's weird having to go "what am i willing to be called right now"
the same for us being loveless honestly. cause the closest option id have there is aroace
and yeah, kind of, but that's not why we're loveless, and at this point us being aroace means significantly less to me than all the other words that i can't even choose from
and i can choose aroace because you won't assume ill date people, or i can choose nonbinary so you don't assume im cis
im glad there was an "other" option
i think itd be easier if there weren't so many baseline assumptions of me